I know.
I wonder if they know their catechism forbids blowjobs. The Song of Solomon 2:3 has a bit to say on that topic.
Solomon was a very naughty boy though.
True, but Proverbs 5:18-20 reinforces the need for sexual love and makes it clear it is to be with the wife of one's youth. I interpret the Song of Solomon to be an image of the kind of passion one is to have with one's wife.
There's also this https://biblehub.com/1_corinthians/7-4.htm
Proverbs 5 is mostly talking about the ultimate consequences of intermixing with foreign women. When I read "wife of your youth" I am reminded of the villages of the past, where the local community would matchmake guys and girls of a similar age, when they were young, so they grew up with the intent of becoming married later on. Like childhood sweethearts. Where as foreign wives were more likely to be someone from another village, likely outside of your nation's lands, that you met later on in life.
It's hard to know where to draw the line between hedonism and enjoying private time with your wife, but God did create sex as something to be enjoyed rather than abstained of and despised.
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