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I've been out of the dating game for around a decade. I was married but she passed away and I've bene emotionally stunted since then. I saw this cute girl at church but i have absolutely no clue what to do next? And the news cycle (Poal isnt helping here, taking in so much negative news is very bad for the psyche) gives me this negative reinforcement that asking her out would end in a disaster

I've been out of the dating game for around a decade. I was married but she passed away and I've bene emotionally stunted since then. I saw this cute girl at church but i have absolutely no clue what to do next? And the news cycle (Poal isnt helping here, taking in so much negative news is very bad for the psyche) gives me this negative reinforcement that asking her out would end in a disaster

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A lot of guys fall into the trap of thinking they have to go along to get along, but I think it's actually good to be different. You want to be your real self when talking to a woman. Maybe instead of politics talk about something apolitical and positive like flat earth theory.

[–] 1 pt

Hello woman, i browse 4chan and /b/, how do you do?

[–] 1 pt

Women typically don't know about those websites, so it's not likely they'll equate you with communities of low status men as you're implying.

From personal experience I find women are drawn to men who are willing to include them in the quest for truth. What could be more flattering than being included this way. Plus, women like men who have ideas and aren't afraid to challenge the status quo.

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Im pretty sure a woman would nope out of /b/ in 10 seconds after the second post. /pol/ isnt much better. I've come to the idea that i may simply be too out there for dating. Most of my beliefs supercede politics, and go straight into political manipulation, and the psychology of abuse. I don't care about republican, or democrat, except as a means to see how easily people can get fooled with the illusion of choice. Be it team A or team B, why do people fall for these same tricks time and time again? But good luck trying to have a conversation about that topic with the normie retards