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I've been out of the dating game for around a decade. I was married but she passed away and I've bene emotionally stunted since then. I saw this cute girl at church but i have absolutely no clue what to do next? And the news cycle (Poal isnt helping here, taking in so much negative news is very bad for the psyche) gives me this negative reinforcement that asking her out would end in a disaster

I've been out of the dating game for around a decade. I was married but she passed away and I've bene emotionally stunted since then. I saw this cute girl at church but i have absolutely no clue what to do next? And the news cycle (Poal isnt helping here, taking in so much negative news is very bad for the psyche) gives me this negative reinforcement that asking her out would end in a disaster

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Women typically don't know about those websites, so it's not likely they'll equate you with communities of low status men as you're implying.

From personal experience I find women are drawn to men who are willing to include them in the quest for truth. What could be more flattering than being included this way. Plus, women like men who have ideas and aren't afraid to challenge the status quo.

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Im pretty sure a woman would nope out of /b/ in 10 seconds after the second post. /pol/ isnt much better. I've come to the idea that i may simply be too out there for dating. Most of my beliefs supercede politics, and go straight into political manipulation, and the psychology of abuse. I don't care about republican, or democrat, except as a means to see how easily people can get fooled with the illusion of choice. Be it team A or team B, why do people fall for these same tricks time and time again? But good luck trying to have a conversation about that topic with the normie retards

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It's all in your presentation of the topic and the vibe you give off. People will forget what you say but remember how you made them feel. Again, something someone is saying online, whether it's /b/ or otherwise, has no relevance to an in person conversation unless you bring it up.

I would recommend just relating the facts, and doing so in a positive and friendly way. Many aspects of ball earth claims are quite funny, such as the faked moon landing and specious arguments about "gravity". Plus there are deeply meaningful and mysterious implications of the world we actually live in. Think of the ice wall. Think of what's really above and below. It can be very moving and, in the right setting, downright romantic.