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I've been out of the dating game for around a decade. I was married but she passed away and I've bene emotionally stunted since then. I saw this cute girl at church but i have absolutely no clue what to do next? And the news cycle (Poal isnt helping here, taking in so much negative news is very bad for the psyche) gives me this negative reinforcement that asking her out would end in a disaster

I've been out of the dating game for around a decade. I was married but she passed away and I've bene emotionally stunted since then. I saw this cute girl at church but i have absolutely no clue what to do next? And the news cycle (Poal isnt helping here, taking in so much negative news is very bad for the psyche) gives me this negative reinforcement that asking her out would end in a disaster

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I'm really good at getting them but not so much at keeping them. I got 5 kids by 3 women. Stop worrying about whether you'll get married or not and just be exciting and fun to be around. Tease and make jokes. Put yourself out there. The rest will work itself out.