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I've been out of the dating game for around a decade. I was married but she passed away and I've bene emotionally stunted since then. I saw this cute girl at church but i have absolutely no clue what to do next? And the news cycle (Poal isnt helping here, taking in so much negative news is very bad for the psyche) gives me this negative reinforcement that asking her out would end in a disaster

I've been out of the dating game for around a decade. I was married but she passed away and I've bene emotionally stunted since then. I saw this cute girl at church but i have absolutely no clue what to do next? And the news cycle (Poal isnt helping here, taking in so much negative news is very bad for the psyche) gives me this negative reinforcement that asking her out would end in a disaster

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[–] • 14 pts

If you have to ask then you're already fucked.

Either you meet someone and you click, or you're already a skilled conversationalist and have no issues chatting with strangers.

You have nothing but my sympathies; I'm completely clued out when it comes to chatting up girls. I have no idea how I managed to attract the interest of my wife in the first place.

Say "Hello" to her and hope she picks up the ball. Don't jump into the deep end by asking her on a date right off. Try to build up some rapport first. Good luck.

[–] • 0 pt

I'm really good at getting them but not so much at keeping them. I got 5 kids by 3 women. Stop worrying about whether you'll get married or not and just be exciting and fun to be around. Tease and make jokes. Put yourself out there. The rest will work itself out.

[–] • 0 pt

Don't jump into the deep end by asking her out on a date right off the bat.

This is horrible advice. Be very clear about intentions and do not shy away from asking if she'd prefer to have your number or give you hers,

Just ask if she's available first. It isn't difficult.

[–] • 0 pt

I knew a couple of guys who asked "Wanna fuck?" right out of the gate. It worked better than you'd think.

[–] • 0 pt

It's a simple reason, actually - women like men that are confident and not afraid to speak their mind. I'd bet they were women with low self-esteem, frankly, but it isn't surprising that it would work, especially if she was drunk and lonely.

Being very direct, although I would suggest "wanna fuck?", is the best approach.

[–] • 9 pts

Don't date a single mom. Don't date a libtard. Don't date fat women.

[–] • 3 pts

Don't date fat women, there's 99% chance they'd give you nigger herpes

[–] • 1 pt

Or suffocate you if they roll over.....

[–] • 0 pt
[–] • 2 pts

Don't date a single mom.

Widows are generally OK, but do NOT ever slight her former husband in your speech.

[–] • 1 pt

As long as the widow was not a coal burner.

[–] • 8 pts

How much does a polar bear weigh?

Enough to break the Ice. Hi my name is.

[–] • 8 pts

Hey bb u want sum fuk?

But seriously, just go introduce yourself and invite her to dinner.

[–] • 4 pts

Dinner and/or movies are the worst first dates. Makes for terrible conversation.

[–] • 4 pts

Be very, very dominant. Speak one level below shouting, make exaggerated hand gestures while ranting about how much you hate jews more than niggers and stare her right in the tits the whole time. Every once in a while tug at your crotch. Works every time bro.

[–] [deleted] • 4 pts

Step one: Introduce yourself by your actions. Do not be shy.

Step two: Woman love to talk about themselves and gossip. Give her a compliment like, "your mouth don't stink" or something nice.

Step three: Cut to the chase and ask her to marry you on the first date. Life is short, go for the gusto.

Step four: Ignore my advice, and you may get lucky.

Step Five: Let God show you the way, he works in the strangest ways.

[–] • 4 pts

your mouth don't stink

This man lays pipe.

[–] [deleted] • 1 pt

My nickname is "Ditch Witch" cause I lay so much pipe.

Don't get me started on butthole hygiene. As Red Foxx said it best "Women, you gotz to wash dat azz".

Poetry.

[–] • 0 pt

Isnt step three how baptist churches operate?

[–] [deleted] • 0 pt

Nope, you're thinking the LDS church...

I know this because it happened to me!!

[–] • 3 pts

When in doubt whip it out.

[–] • 0 pt

Helicopter go

[–] • 2 pts

A lot of guys fall into the trap of thinking they have to go along to get along, but I think it's actually good to be different. You want to be your real self when talking to a woman. Maybe instead of politics talk about something apolitical and positive like flat earth theory.

[–] • 1 pt

Hello woman, i browse 4chan and /b/, how do you do?

[–] • 1 pt

Women typically don't know about those websites, so it's not likely they'll equate you with communities of low status men as you're implying.

From personal experience I find women are drawn to men who are willing to include them in the quest for truth. What could be more flattering than being included this way. Plus, women like men who have ideas and aren't afraid to challenge the status quo.

[–] • 0 pt

Im pretty sure a woman would nope out of /b/ in 10 seconds after the second post. /pol/ isnt much better. I've come to the idea that i may simply be too out there for dating. Most of my beliefs supercede politics, and go straight into political manipulation, and the psychology of abuse. I don't care about republican, or democrat, except as a means to see how easily people can get fooled with the illusion of choice. Be it team A or team B, why do people fall for these same tricks time and time again? But good luck trying to have a conversation about that topic with the normie retards

[–] • 2 pts

Let her talk about herself, a woman's favorite subject is herself. Listen and don't interrupt and don't try and solve anything, just act appropriate emmotionally to what she's saying. You'll be in like Flynn.

[–] • 1 pt

You lookin for that long daddy dick stroke? Bring that gash over here bitch imma suck them poossay juices out you. Better blow this gorrilla dick nigger fore i cut you up.

[–] • 0 pt

Yeah, I really wanna listen to some roastie talking about herself

[–] [deleted] • 1 pt

Ask her if she has a tiktok. If she says yes, walk away.

[–] • 1 pt

I think I'm just going to get some popcorn and watch this go where it will...

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