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I feel like I need some counsel outside my friend group. A third party, unbiased, confidant with some legitimate experience. I don't go to a church, so I don't have a particular elder/pastor type to go too; Don't think a random one will be the best idea either.

My thought is to seek out much older practitioners. If convenience has it, one that went to a school that was not known for extreme commie-radicalization at the time he went. Doubt I will have much of a choice in the my city.

Then again, some things are best left unsaid.

I feel like I need some counsel outside my friend group. A third party, unbiased, confidant with some legitimate experience. I don't go to a church, so I don't have a particular elder/pastor type to go too; Don't think a random one will be the best idea either. My thought is to seek out much older practitioners. If convenience has it, one that went to a school that was not known for extreme commie-radicalization at the time he went. Doubt I will have much of a choice in the my city. Then again, some things are best left unsaid.

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Find a Salvation Army Corps

If theyre wearing a uniform they have been through a personal war and won, and are wearing those uniforms because they dont want anyone else going through what theyve gone through and will talk to you about what theyve gone through.

Doesnt have to be a faith thing. My corps you can go in at lunchtime on most wednesdays and have a full meal, theres always tea coffee and biscuits, and there is always donated food and washing machines and stuff like that.

I went because i just needed to talk. I stayed because i found a bunch of brothers.

Turns out one of those brothers had been in one of my classes, felt like i needed to talk to someone, but couldnt talk to me. Prayed over me, and i showed up at his church like 3 weeks later.