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I feel like I need some counsel outside my friend group. A third party, unbiased, confidant with some legitimate experience. I don't go to a church, so I don't have a particular elder/pastor type to go too; Don't think a random one will be the best idea either.

My thought is to seek out much older practitioners. If convenience has it, one that went to a school that was not known for extreme commie-radicalization at the time he went. Doubt I will have much of a choice in the my city.

Then again, some things are best left unsaid.

I feel like I need some counsel outside my friend group. A third party, unbiased, confidant with some legitimate experience. I don't go to a church, so I don't have a particular elder/pastor type to go too; Don't think a random one will be the best idea either. My thought is to seek out much older practitioners. If convenience has it, one that went to a school that was not known for extreme commie-radicalization at the time he went. Doubt I will have much of a choice in the my city. Then again, some things are best left unsaid.

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Search online, most of the time they list what they specialize in. If you see LGBT/Trans that's obviously going to be a hard pass, you can also do a quick voting record search. I ended up with someone that specializes in drug and alcohol abuse even though I don't do anything like that but he ended up being great to talk about stress from government overreach with, the point is even if they specialize in marriage counseling or something else don't rule them out. Good luck.

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Also great information. Thank you, Bud.

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Voting record search?

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Yes. If they vote Democrat they are less likely to be understanding of the pain someone from Poal experiences. It's easier to feel understood with a likeminded individual.

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Where are you finding this info?