The man is the spiritual leader of the house. If he fails to keep God in the home and in the marriage the odds start stacking against them. Two based people are better than one. Be Caucasian as fuck. Keep your marriage problems between the both of you. His dude friends will give shit advice unless they have a traditional happy marriage. Her chick friends are even fucking worse unless the are HAPPILY in a traditional marriage. Communicate. Take turns being angry or depressed so you can take turns caring for each other. Have dinner together every day you possibly can. Work out together. Shoot guns together. Have sex. I'm sure I missed some but these are fundementals that last from day one to the year of never and the good old month of none. Keep the creator in your home #1