Don't circumcise if it's a boy. Be kind and gentle and be firm. You are not their friend you are their teacher. children learn what you don't notice you are teaching them. If you are selfish, angry, entitled, gluttonous, lazy, or stupid your children will learn that. Start working on your own flaws to minimize your children's flaws. The most important thing you can do is to not give them answers to questions. Ask them questions to make them think for themselves. Always question, never answer. Every answer you give them is a teaching moment lost. If you know an answer, ask them questions to make them get to the answer on their own. If you dont, ask them questions to understand their reasoning and then go learn it together. The single greatest gift you can give your child is the love of knowledge for knowledge sake. Congratulations. Good luck and if you have any questions ask