Man so many of the books are Kaplan’s and steins. Don’t read any. Don’t overthink. Ask family members and other men you trust for input. Find white you tubers who cover this stuff. There are lots. There are many ways to go about things, there is not one way. You will do great, lots of great advice here. He is now the center of your universe, every decision you make is with him front and center. God bless and congratulations!