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So let me give some context and explain the situation.

Me have a child 5 years old with an ex. There is absolutely zero chance of me getting with the ex basically think of it as me being a sperm donar and we are comparenting

My current gf of 2 years who we plan on having kids and are committed had a problem with this situation.

I had the 5 year old. I had about an hour to kill so I was going to go hang out in the back yard with my 5 year old and smoke a cigar waiting for her mom to get home then leave. I told my current gf about my plans because she thinks the ex is trying to get back with me. She says she trust me but doesn't trust her.

I said I wouldn't go over. She still is mad and she texted me this.

The fact that the thought went thru ur head and u thought it was a good enough idea to tell me about it is the problem

Her 3 friends agreed with her I shouldn't be at my ex house ever basically.

Now she will go to sea world with her ex and their kid? Is that ok?

So let me give some context and explain the situation. Me have a child 5 years old with an ex. There is absolutely zero chance of me getting with the ex basically think of it as me being a sperm donar and we are comparenting My current gf of 2 years who we plan on having kids and are committed had a problem with this situation. I had the 5 year old. I had about an hour to kill so I was going to go hang out in the back yard with my 5 year old and smoke a cigar waiting for her mom to get home then leave. I told my current gf about my plans because she thinks the ex is trying to get back with me. She says she trust me but doesn't trust her. I said I wouldn't go over. She still is mad and she texted me this. The fact that the thought went thru ur head and u thought it was a good enough idea to tell me about it is the problem Her 3 friends agreed with her I shouldn't be at my ex house ever basically. Now she will go to sea world with her ex and their kid? Is that ok?

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[–] • 10 pts

If you’re all in, then man up and tell her how it is. If she wants to go bat shit crazy and not be with you anymore because you communicate with the mother of your child and physically go to the house where your child spends part of her time, then let her go crazy and leave. Don’t force something that isn’t meant to happen. Either she trusts you too, and she’s all in, or this is going to be one shitty relationship.

[–] • 0 pt

She is stubborn as a mule and is getting bad advice. I'm gonna just man up and remove her from these shit people get her on a farmstead and prove my value and she will fall in line. I get your point but my chance to have white kids is bigger then dealing with some minor shit like this. I'm fighting against what 75 years of feminist jew indoctrination? I'm taking taking hard road gonna fix myself and her and have good white kids. Also her ex is a liberal gamma so probably fix his kid to.

We as white men have to man up

[–] • 5 pts

Listen to your own words as if someone else were saying them. You will fix her, you will "prove your value", you will fight off all that indoctrination, and consider it your duty as a man to take all that on to fix her, her bad decisions, your ex, her ex (to a degree), her ex's kid.... There's hard work and farmsteading, and there's not using logic or making sound decisions, yourself. You can't build a farm with sick livestock, even if it's got good bloodline.

[–] • 2 pts

Women need to be isolated with their husband for 3 years after marriage in order to break all the shit habits their friends and parents taught them. P

It's pretty standard in some cultures.

[–] • 2 pts

I can't attest to that. I wouldn't say my wife used to be a feminist, but she definitely has some "woman power" beliefs. Women's right to choose abortion, gays are ok, and shit like that.

Now we are going on our 3rd year of marriage. She is 20 weeks pregnant with our second kid, she is a stay at home Mom who cooks me supper, and when I told her that the holocaust is fake she didn't bat an eye because she respects and trusts my discernment of the clown world we live in.

[–] • 1 pt

White men have to man up

Prove my value

Any man who puts up with disrespect and controlling behavior has already proved his worth. So yes, man up. That means the opposite of tolerating shitty behavior. She's not your mom, and neither are her friends.

Whatever you think you're doing, being pussy whipped and hoping things will work out better in the future when she decides to act foolish is 100% reinforcing the feminist jew agenda regarding white men.

[–] • 0 pt

Cope. Her ex is a gamma? That's a red flag.

[–] • 0 pt

He was a gamma but smooth talker lots of charisma...