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So let me give some context and explain the situation.

Me have a child 5 years old with an ex. There is absolutely zero chance of me getting with the ex basically think of it as me being a sperm donar and we are comparenting

My current gf of 2 years who we plan on having kids and are committed had a problem with this situation.

I had the 5 year old. I had about an hour to kill so I was going to go hang out in the back yard with my 5 year old and smoke a cigar waiting for her mom to get home then leave. I told my current gf about my plans because she thinks the ex is trying to get back with me. She says she trust me but doesn't trust her.

I said I wouldn't go over. She still is mad and she texted me this.

The fact that the thought went thru ur head and u thought it was a good enough idea to tell me about it is the problem

Her 3 friends agreed with her I shouldn't be at my ex house ever basically.

Now she will go to sea world with her ex and their kid? Is that ok?

So let me give some context and explain the situation. Me have a child 5 years old with an ex. There is absolutely zero chance of me getting with the ex basically think of it as me being a sperm donar and we are comparenting My current gf of 2 years who we plan on having kids and are committed had a problem with this situation. I had the 5 year old. I had about an hour to kill so I was going to go hang out in the back yard with my 5 year old and smoke a cigar waiting for her mom to get home then leave. I told my current gf about my plans because she thinks the ex is trying to get back with me. She says she trust me but doesn't trust her. I said I wouldn't go over. She still is mad and she texted me this. The fact that the thought went thru ur head and u thought it was a good enough idea to tell me about it is the problem Her 3 friends agreed with her I shouldn't be at my ex house ever basically. Now she will go to sea world with her ex and their kid? Is that ok?

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[–] • 1 pt

OH GOD NO!!!!! Sorry for yelling. Gf is emotionally immature and walking away from her is for the best. You got a kid man. That kid IS your world from now until the end of time and if a woman decides she doesn’t want that kid in your life now she will definitely not want them in it when you have kids with her. Take the loss, dump the gf, give your kid hugs and snuggles and know that you will find someone who loves and cares for you both.

[–] • 0 pt

She likes the kid it's the baby momma that might cause proboems.

[–] [deleted] • 0 pt

So you are admitting to allowing women rule you. Nothing else to say. BTW I had a toxic friend when I met my husband. He sat me down and said, "dump her ass, she's a bitch and I don't want her around" I ghosted her right away. He is more important than any bitch or bitches I knew.

[–] • -1 pt

I wouldn't go as far as rule me but she for sure has the upper hand. She is white and wants white kids I want white kids and willing to do what ever it takes to make that happen... i will just man up make things so good on the Homestead she will forget about all the bullshit