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So let me give some context and explain the situation.

Me have a child 5 years old with an ex. There is absolutely zero chance of me getting with the ex basically think of it as me being a sperm donar and we are comparenting

My current gf of 2 years who we plan on having kids and are committed had a problem with this situation.

I had the 5 year old. I had about an hour to kill so I was going to go hang out in the back yard with my 5 year old and smoke a cigar waiting for her mom to get home then leave. I told my current gf about my plans because she thinks the ex is trying to get back with me. She says she trust me but doesn't trust her.

I said I wouldn't go over. She still is mad and she texted me this.

The fact that the thought went thru ur head and u thought it was a good enough idea to tell me about it is the problem

Her 3 friends agreed with her I shouldn't be at my ex house ever basically.

Now she will go to sea world with her ex and their kid? Is that ok?

So let me give some context and explain the situation. Me have a child 5 years old with an ex. There is absolutely zero chance of me getting with the ex basically think of it as me being a sperm donar and we are comparenting My current gf of 2 years who we plan on having kids and are committed had a problem with this situation. I had the 5 year old. I had about an hour to kill so I was going to go hang out in the back yard with my 5 year old and smoke a cigar waiting for her mom to get home then leave. I told my current gf about my plans because she thinks the ex is trying to get back with me. She says she trust me but doesn't trust her. I said I wouldn't go over. She still is mad and she texted me this. The fact that the thought went thru ur head and u thought it was a good enough idea to tell me about it is the problem Her 3 friends agreed with her I shouldn't be at my ex house ever basically. Now she will go to sea world with her ex and their kid? Is that ok?

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If you're a woman, why on earth do you think women spend their time talking about their intimate partners' genetalia? I've never known a single woman to bring this up and I certainly never have. How would it even come up in conversation? And who would be interested? But she's right, your girlfriend is being totally crazy and should have enough respect and trust for you not to be crazy. That said it's a pretty normal thing to get weird and jealous over. Still a woman respects a man who says what he thinks even if she doesn't want to hear it- that's how you know you can trust somebody, when they tell you the truth when it's hard. So tell her she's being silly and show her that you love her, it'll sort itself out.

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I sure as fuck don't talk about my husband's genitalia with others - because it belongs to me and only me.

My relationship with my husband is nobody's business except for mine, and any issues are spoken about only with him. Anything else is disrespect of him.

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Right! My friends and I have definitely never talked about our husbands that way. But then usually we have our babies with us and you know, we met when we were older. I do remember talking about that stuff with friends in high school who were doing that stuff. Maybe it's an age thing.

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I do remember talking about that stuff with friends in high school who were doing that stuff.

Confirmed reformed degenerate found.

I never spoke of those things with others, because it's disgusting and degenerate. Sex is something that is a sacred bond between you and ideally only one person in your lifetime, to be shared with and only with that person, and not to be used to get fucking ego kibbles with others.

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Women are no longer raised to be supportive wives. To raise their man up by always being respectful in public and expectant of the best in private.

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True. Doesn't mean that I'll act in an unsupportive fashion in regards to him though, as that's degenerate and disgusting in my opinion.

Any hypothetical criticisms whatsoever that I have of him will only ever be expressed in private to him and always in a respectful manner. I expect the same of him towards me as well, but it's my job as his wife to not embarrass or be disrespectful towards him in public.

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BFFs are the doom of good relationships. I had/have zero bffs. You are dreaming if you think they don't talk about sex. duh