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So let me give some context and explain the situation.

Me have a child 5 years old with an ex. There is absolutely zero chance of me getting with the ex basically think of it as me being a sperm donar and we are comparenting

My current gf of 2 years who we plan on having kids and are committed had a problem with this situation.

I had the 5 year old. I had about an hour to kill so I was going to go hang out in the back yard with my 5 year old and smoke a cigar waiting for her mom to get home then leave. I told my current gf about my plans because she thinks the ex is trying to get back with me. She says she trust me but doesn't trust her.

I said I wouldn't go over. She still is mad and she texted me this.

The fact that the thought went thru ur head and u thought it was a good enough idea to tell me about it is the problem

Her 3 friends agreed with her I shouldn't be at my ex house ever basically.

Now she will go to sea world with her ex and their kid? Is that ok?

So let me give some context and explain the situation. Me have a child 5 years old with an ex. There is absolutely zero chance of me getting with the ex basically think of it as me being a sperm donar and we are comparenting My current gf of 2 years who we plan on having kids and are committed had a problem with this situation. I had the 5 year old. I had about an hour to kill so I was going to go hang out in the back yard with my 5 year old and smoke a cigar waiting for her mom to get home then leave. I told my current gf about my plans because she thinks the ex is trying to get back with me. She says she trust me but doesn't trust her. I said I wouldn't go over. She still is mad and she texted me this. The fact that the thought went thru ur head and u thought it was a good enough idea to tell me about it is the problem Her 3 friends agreed with her I shouldn't be at my ex house ever basically. Now she will go to sea world with her ex and their kid? Is that ok?

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There is no need whatsoever to share details of your sex life with anyone except for your partner. As for waxing lyrical about your first time - you should have waited until your wedding night, or, failing that, shortly before your wedding night and certainly not as a teenager to someone you had no ties to. There is no argument about this, merely fact - and your appeals to emotion or ad-hominems do not work on me nor do I care - you are still a reformed degenerate who thinks she knows better.

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Yeah but you don't have to say it... Haha. I was just thinking yesterday that people need to be more judgemental and call each others' behavior what it is, out loud and in front of their peers. It's a good thing, in general society needs more of that. I'm not totally sure that you need to take any opportunity to call people degenerates within your own community, especially if you think they're reformed, but hey. My response has nothing to do with you. If somebody had been shouting that out in my high school maybe I would have been exposed to some moral framework and avoided that pitfall.

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I'll say it because I speak the truth. You aren't part of "this community" - you're a reformed degenerate who thinks she can weasel her way into a community and muddy the waters and try to change the mindset of others to suit her needs and to assuage your previous degeneracy.