That is a great way to put it. I think a hidden problem in the black community that is being exposed more and more is the fact a big percentage of the men are faggots and or accepting of being a faggot because of prison lifestyles. Seen dudes that seem strait talk about having a girlfriend in the prison? A dude who acts like a woman? Are they so fucking retarded they don't understand this is worse then being a real faggot. It's called on the down low. It's a bunch of black dudes who are so fucked up because they have no fathers and were raised by women that they do gay shit seceretly... totally fucked up