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I said it. I had hope. But it’s all bullshit. Every single woman is a fucking liar.

I don’t care, there might be some “good ones” out there, but they’re still liars. Some might say that they want nothing more than absolute honesty in their relationship, but will turn around and lie about very dumb things in order to save face, or because they can’t admit that they lied about who they were.

I hate to sound like a mgtow faggot, but I think in this modern age if you want a family, you have to just settle for a bitch who isn’t wife material.

You might find one that’s smart, cooks amazing food, has amazing sex, is beautiful, fit, politically aligned with you, faithful, doesn’t have a bunch of “best friend” dudes who just want to fuck her always orbiting, drug & alcohol free, hasn’t had 27 miles of dick ran through her, and wants marriage and kids.......but if she lies about who she is and what she does/has done, in my book that’s not wife material.

Honestly I would have SO much more respect for her if she just came clean about everything, got over her shame and trusted that I would not think it was a big deal, but when I KNOW something I’m not supposed to know, and she thinks her secret and lies are secure, I can’t call her out on it can I?

Because then she didn’t voluntarily tell the truth, she just got caught, and I guess I’m hoping she decides on her own and salvages what little respect I have left for her, before I just leave.

Otherwise, I will never respect her and I will never believe or trust her. And unfortunately, I haven’t met a single woman in all my years that didn’t pull this deceptive bullshit.

Some of you ladies out there might say you want the kind of relationship that’s honest about everything, but if you aren’t ACTUALLY honest about EVERYTHING, you’re a fucking milktoast poser.

You’re like an unqualified employee who lies on the job application to get hired, then covers up all their mistakes. Eventually you’ll get found out and fired.

But guess what, if you come clean and admit mistakes, oftentimes the employer will forgive you and give you another chance.

If you really do want honesty, and want a life partner who you can be 100% honest with, fucking prove it cunts.

I said it. I had hope. But it’s all bullshit. Every single woman is a fucking liar. I don’t care, there might be some “good ones” out there, but they’re still liars. Some might say that they want nothing more than absolute honesty in their relationship, but will turn around and lie about very dumb things in order to save face, or because they can’t admit that they lied about who they were. I hate to sound like a mgtow faggot, but I think in this modern age if you want a family, you have to just settle for a bitch who isn’t wife material. You might find one that’s smart, cooks amazing food, has amazing sex, is beautiful, fit, politically aligned with you, faithful, doesn’t have a bunch of “best friend” dudes who just want to fuck her always orbiting, drug & alcohol free, hasn’t had 27 miles of dick ran through her, and wants marriage and kids.......but if she lies about who she is and what she does/has done, in my book that’s not wife material. Honestly I would have SO much more respect for her if she just came clean about everything, got over her shame and trusted that I would not think it was a big deal, but when I KNOW something I’m not supposed to know, and she thinks her secret and lies are secure, I can’t call her out on it can I? Because then she didn’t voluntarily tell the truth, she just got caught, and I guess I’m hoping she decides on her own and salvages what little respect I have left for her, before I just leave. Otherwise, I will never respect her and I will never believe or trust her. And unfortunately, I haven’t met a single woman in all my years that didn’t pull this deceptive bullshit. Some of you ladies out there might say you want the kind of relationship that’s honest about everything, but if you aren’t ACTUALLY honest about EVERYTHING, you’re a fucking milktoast poser. You’re like an unqualified employee who lies on the job application to get hired, then covers up all their mistakes. Eventually you’ll get found out and fired. But guess what, if you come clean and admit mistakes, oftentimes the employer will forgive you and give you another chance. If you really do want honesty, and want a life partner who you can be 100% honest with, fucking prove it cunts.

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[–] [deleted] • 13 pts

Women only care about / know / want what is good for them. Never listen to what a woman says, always listen to what they do.

Honestly, unless you are in a position to start a family have nothing to do with them.

If you're mother hasn't warned you about female nature, keep her out of your life as well. Pleasantries and christmas dinners.

Practice abstinence, chastity and self control - that way when you are in a position to have a family you are thinking clearly.

Women for the most part are spoiled children. The cost to be with them is too high.

If you said what she lied about, I missed it. Regardless, you're not in the right place for a relationship. Cut it off, go to therapy. Get some maturity under your belt and try again with someone else.

If she has you this upset over whatever... she will never respect you, and you've already lost.

Please have the self respect to end it and walk away and talk to a therapist.

[–] [deleted] • 5 pts

Best advice I've read on this subject on Poal.

[–] • 3 pts

you're not in the right place for a relationship. Cut it off, go to therapy. Get some maturity under your belt and try again with someone else.

This. If you don't have self-knowledge and understand how blind you probably are, you will keep choosing bad mates. It's like those single mothers who blame the guy and their child grows up thinking how great their single mom was. No, she failed in mate selection.

[–] • 1 pt

Great advice. For young men, any relationship that doesn't lead to marriage and having babies is an enormous waste of time and money. Especially when you factor in that your 20s/30s are the most productive years of your life. The time wasted on chasing women could have been overtime pay, learning a new trade, or spent building a solid business.

It's still a good rule of thumb to be either engaged or broken after dating for a year. I don't even think it takes that long to get to know a person well enough.

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If (your) mother hasn't warned you about female nature, keep her out of your life as well. Pleasantries and christmas dinners.

This is spot on. I watched my entire generation of males get destroyed by their devouring and psychotic mothers