I won’t say what it is she lied about, but I’ll say I’ve given her multiple opportunities to come clean and she just doubles down, and it’s something that literally wouldn’t matter or change anything. So the subject isn’t necessarily a dealbreaker depending, but the lie itself potentially is...
Then you have a decision to make. Does she have other qualities that outweigh that, or is that one of your harsh dealbreakers? If it's a harsh dealbreaker then it's worth ending the relationship.
Have you tried being direct with her, rather than being wishy washy and beating around the bush? If one doesn't have clear expectations it can be easy for someone to lie, whether that's through simple ignorance, or in some cases malice.
Without knowing more about whats going on, it's pretty hard to give advice. That being said, having a knee-jerk response and saying that all women are liars, just because your woman is a liar, is you behaving hysterically. You're a man, cut it the fuck out.
Why hasn't she told you? She considers it trivial, not a subject worth talking about? Or, the opposite. So intense a subject that it would jeopardize your relationship?
Perhaps she's scared of your reaction. Why?
Well do you KNOW she is lying. Or are you just pretty sure? All humans lie. Including you
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