This only works with civilized neighbors. It's a judgement call. The problem is that if you try talking first, and they're not civilized people, they'll know who's responsible for what comes next. People who aren't civilized tend to get angry and confrontational when they have to live by civilized people rules.
This only works with civilized neighbors. It's a judgement call. The problem is that if you try talking first, and they're not civilized people, they'll know who's responsible for what comes next. People who aren't civilized tend to get angry and confrontational when they have to live by civilized people rules.
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