There isn't anything to do and nothing to change, I've been desperately searching for years for anything, but my life still consists solely of work, browsing sites like this, and occasional gaming.
And as long as you don’t try to develop new interests or go outside your comfort zone nothing will change. Keep doing what you’re doing and you’ll keep getting what you’re getting.
No, all this motivational bullshit about "just do it" is false. Majority people have boring, unbearable and sometimes painful lives, and there is nothing they can do except ending this meaningless existence. Thanks to social media and distorted representation of other people, we can think that luck and fortune and happiness is right there, we just need some action towards it. Nope. However one can change attitude and look on the same things differently, but it will be something like
You can think your existence is meaningless, and it is. If that’s all you think life is about. Call it motivational bullshit all you want. Nothing will change in your life until you make it change. I grew up in an alcoholic hellhole. Married an alcoholic hellhole. Once I finally found the spine to say no more, it wasn’t. Was it easy? Fuck no it wasn’t! But I decided that that was not going to be my life anymore. One of the most powerful sayings I ever read was:
People will not change until the pain of staying the same is greater than the pain of change.
Keep doing what you’re doing and you’ll keep getting what you’re getting.
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