You can think your existence is meaningless, and it is. If that’s all you think life is about. Call it motivational bullshit all you want. Nothing will change in your life until you make it change. I grew up in an alcoholic hellhole. Married an alcoholic hellhole. Once I finally found the spine to say no more, it wasn’t. Was it easy? Fuck no it wasn’t! But I decided that that was not going to be my life anymore. One of the most powerful sayings I ever read was:
People will not change until the pain of staying the same is greater than the pain of change.
Keep doing what you’re doing and you’ll keep getting what you’re getting.
Probably there are things I would like to do, they are not really hard to do, I just don't see any point of it. But anyway, where would you suggest me to begin my journey if you have experience to make a major changes in your life?
Find people who have similar interests, from churches to bowling alleys to beekeeping. Visits new store or place of business every week. Whatever interests you. Get away from your boring routine and change it up.
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