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As an aside, I have a new challenge i use to figure out if a woman is a good fit: interaction with my dog. My dog is a feral wildland dog, one of the only American dog breeds still in existence. So he comes with all the quirks you would expect from a feral dog: extreme aggressiveness, poor human bonding, very high energy, hates niggers, etc. Because of his temperament, it shoes away most women immediately, since it's impossible to bring him anywhere with a human population, let alone have him accustom to a human as a one on one session.

I was trying out those dating apps, and i quickly realized they suck. See, if she's talking to you, there's hundreds of other dudes she's also talking to. Whilst I would like to believe these women aren't complete hoes, there is no real way of knowing one way or another. Beyond that, a lot of these women have fatal character flaws be it tattoos, rude, swear a lot, bipolarism, etc. So really, those apps were out within a week. Not that you can't meet nice people on those apps, but really at the end of the day, not really where one would find relationship worthy women, could be wrong though. I did find some women, but immediately blocked them when they started sending nude pics, etc.

In real life, churches have such dwindling numbers, you aren't likely to find a dateable women there. If you do, there's a 90% chance she's either already married or dating someone else. Sure you could wait, but i feel like church isnt really the answer either. None of my hobbies are in any way geared towards meeting other people. My favorite hobby is shed hunting with my dog in public land, which is usually a minimum of 50 miles out from a house, even farther for any place with more than 2 people there. And honestly, I would rather spend time with my dog than people at this point. And with how hostile my dog is to others, i would never think to bring someone with me, not that i want anyone there anyways usually.

So I've really come to the conclusion that dating in today's world is a hopeless endeavour

As an aside, I have a new challenge i use to figure out if a woman is a good fit: interaction with my dog. My dog is a feral wildland dog, one of the only American dog breeds still in existence. So he comes with all the quirks you would expect from a feral dog: extreme aggressiveness, poor human bonding, very high energy, hates niggers, etc. Because of his temperament, it shoes away most women immediately, since it's impossible to bring him anywhere with a human population, let alone have him accustom to a human as a one on one session. I was trying out those dating apps, and i quickly realized they suck. See, if she's talking to you, there's hundreds of other dudes she's also talking to. Whilst I would like to believe these women aren't complete hoes, there is no real way of knowing one way or another. Beyond that, a lot of these women have fatal character flaws be it tattoos, rude, swear a lot, bipolarism, etc. So really, those apps were out within a week. Not that you can't meet nice people on those apps, but really at the end of the day, not really where one would find relationship worthy women, could be wrong though. I did find some women, but immediately blocked them when they started sending nude pics, etc. In real life, churches have such dwindling numbers, you aren't likely to find a dateable women there. If you do, there's a 90% chance she's either already married or dating someone else. Sure you could wait, but i feel like church isnt really the answer either. None of my hobbies are in any way geared towards meeting other people. My favorite hobby is shed hunting with my dog in public land, which is usually a minimum of 50 miles out from a house, even farther for any place with more than 2 people there. And honestly, I would rather spend time with my dog than people at this point. And with how hostile my dog is to others, i would never think to bring someone with me, not that i want anyone there anyways usually. So I've really come to the conclusion that dating in today's world is a hopeless endeavour

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[–] • 13 pts

Stopped caring about reading your dating woes because you spent too much time trying to justify having an untrained nigger dog.

[–] • 0 pt

That's just how i got him, tried training him but doesnt really seem to do much. Whoever the prior owner was did not do a good job with him

[–] • 4 pts

Don't involve your dog into the equation, especially if you cant control it.

Online dating is shit because its a fake "environment", it exists outside of reality and trying to take anything from it back into reality will always be a struggle. Churches died 2-3 generations ago, now they are just parasites that will bleed you out for their own in-group gain.

Find a "white" hobby, and connect with the real people and later with the real families there. Probably the best chance to meet family oriented people is interacting with families in a natural environment.

[–] • 3 pts

Old dogs can't learn new tricks is bullshit. But, if your dog is irreparable, and you are convinced that you can't fix the problem, and believe no one can, take the Atticus Finch path. Don't blame your dating woes on your poor choice in pets. Your pet is quite likely a reflection of yourself.

Of course most adults who attend church are married or dating. You think church is meant as a fucking dating site with people looking to hook up? Fuck no. Think. Do volunteer work at places churches support. Why? Because that's where single folks are trying to make a difference,. In my experience married folks with kids could give a fuck.

[–] • 3 pts

No you just have to not be a pussy and talk to women in real life.

"Hi there, I know this is random but I thought you where attractive and wanted to come say hi".

Say this to literally any girl you see out and about who you think looks good.

It's just talking to a girl.

[–] [deleted] • 4 pts

Doesn't work if you are not attractive.

[–] • 5 pts

I deal with a lot of salesman. Most of them are not very attractive at all but they all have smoking hot successful wives.

Because they know how to sell them selves. It is just another sale.

[–] • -1 pt

Good advice here. Dating is like interviewing. If you suck at interviews, then you probably suck at dating too. Ou need to fake it, unless you are naturally good looking, funny, great at conversations, etc.

[–] [deleted] • 2 pts (edited )

Your wife died recently right? It can be tough getting back into the game. Focus on work and yourself, build confidence, learn to enjoy your life through accomplishment, dont look for women to validate yourself. Then at some point in doing all that some woman you run into along the way will recognize your implicit value and it'll happen without it being a goal or something you're actively seeking out.

[–] • 2 pts

Gun ranges and community centers in based areas bud.

[–] • 1 pt

Most of the female population is not suitable for a relationship let alone marriage. Forget your nigger dog. Personally, I find dogs annoying, like niggers.

[–] [deleted] • 0 pt

The only specific dating advice I can think of is that it's perhaps not the best idea to throw a wild animal at a women to see how they cope with it. But it does provide me with an amusing mental image.

Now, with that out of the way, it is well known that dogs, for all their other good qualities, are also amazing pickup buddies. The way it works is you're walking your dog, and a woman is approaching and she is also walking her dog. The two dogs interact and you take the opportunity to engage in small talk with the woman. Go from there.

The issue is that your dog breed is not fit for normal society so he is actually holding you back from meeting people. The dog parks, walks in town etc. Not appropriate.

The logical solution to this quandary is to seek out fellow Wildland dog owners - your dog will be happy as they are dogs of his breed, and the people who own them will already have passed your test, pre-qualified as they are as Wildland dog owners.

Recommendation: go on the internet and find the American wildland dog owners club.

[–] • 0 pt

I shed hunt quite a bit too. Mostly for moose paddles. Cant say ive ever met a woman in the mountains.

[–] [deleted] • 0 pt

Chastity and abstinence are always an option. Go to church to deepen your relationship with God and forget women all together.

Unless you're still young enough to raise a family, there's no reason to give women any attention.

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Dating today is essentially dudes looking for a woman that is their best friend that they also can fuck. It's a fantasy that doesn't exist. Women are shit friends and they don't like the things you like. Sorry if I had to be the one to break it to you.

The only reason for "dating" should be to find a good mother for your kids. That's it. And you either have enough money to keep a woman and a few kids or you don't. Super easy.

Now instead of an excel sheet full of compatibility items, you only have a couple questions to answer. Do you want kids? Do you have enough money to raise them?

This is why you always see young women going after older guys who are more established and have more money. It just works. She's still young and has good dna for babies, and he has enough money to keep them healthy.

This has the added benefit of greatly expanding your pool of eligible women. Instead of wasting your life looking for "the one", which is a disney fairy tale, all you need is a healthy woman with a vagina. There are plenty of those.

When you put it all together, your ideal woman is in her late teens/early 20s and hasn't been to college. Find a father that needs any reason to not pay college tuition and you've got yourself a wife.

Now if you don't want kids it gets even easier. Just don't date. Dating is a huge financial and legal liability that you don't need. Best case scenario is you have a okayish 20 year marriage and then she leaves with half your shit. That sounds crazy? If you think a woman won't pretend to love you for 20 years while fucking other guys and waiting to cash out, you are still in jew fairy tale land and should seek help immediately.

Good luck out there

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Digital courtship was doomed to fail from the beginning. It's a popularity contest and it only caters to women with generally passable photography skills and men in the golden ratio who have above average height. You do not want to date a woman who uses a dating app and if you find out she's ever used one, you're best off making that an immediate next. Any woman who's exhausted all options in her personal life and seeks an outlet "on the internet" has a heightened sense of self-value to a detriment, is not looking for a long-distance relationship (no matter what they say, it's not true; women have to take in so many more things than visual appearance, even if they'll settle for otherwise fatal flaws if they find the golden ratio men they seek in looking via the dating service) and is incapable of the delayed gratification of a typical relationship, which indicates a broken woman. Since women are taught to ingratiate their audience and abandon modesty via these services, the ones that use them will be numb to historical norms of courtship; between the typical examples either making the "I'm quirky" appeals or doing their best to showcase their physical attributes (which any palatable woman would never do), women have come a long way from eliciting the foundational attributes that qualify a mate. There's no longer appeals like how good she is with kids involved (why would they present these qualities?... the idea is to have sex and if it isn't then she's certifiably broken), no feminine displays via modesty, something desperately important in a female prospect, ("getting a date" involves abandoning modesty because of the quick dopamine rush of seeing "any other slut) and there's no chemical reaction which is requisite to peer bonding (pheromones are much more important than we're told). All of these things make the subsequent "date" hinge upon the sexual encounter alone and therefore erodes peer bonding, something absolutely vital to long-term commitment.

Dating services, no matter how much we're told, are for men and men alone. No woman will ever get what she wants out of one. She's self-sabotaging even if she finds a golden-ratio male based on courtship fatigue alone. Solely men can adequately benefit because they are presented with their choice of all of the highest quality females. Too bad that they have to trade such an array of choice with knowing that the way they discovered each other was very likely after she's also slept with more than one other man using such a service. Some trade-off...

tl;dr online dating is a waste of every party's time and should only be used for affairs

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