Well, I just turned 40, need bifocals, have bursitis (though I think that's caused by protein shedding since 2 people in my building died in the last week after they were giving the poison shots out for free down the street), thank luck never married after Ive seen how females behave and how many are divorced and wage slaves, and I was never less happy when I was making the most money I ever had less than a year out of college. I have a small group of friends who I'd like to see in person more but with whom I regularly communicate and in an emergency they would be there by the end of the day. I have free time and hobbies. I do live in what has become a shell of what I used to recognize as Pittsburgh. So there's that. But I have a bank account with savings and a way to make money and I'm getting out of this neighborhood soon.