If you are a giver and not a taker, you are a minority which means that everyone else is trying to take something from you and you will get nothing from them in return. This can be mentally and emotionally exhaustive
I feel like I wasted my life
Don't. Learn from it and learnt to cut people off. They don't deserve any more from you than what they are willing to provide in return.
i have to learn to modulate the cut off to what they are willing to provide in return (as you said) because otherwise i would be completely alone. emotions make it really hard to see lucid reality when in the moment though. I'm not great at expressing myself clearly without time to think and no one gives you time to think when in a conversation, its always interruptions and talking over. Thanks for listening though. I appreciate being able to tell someone.
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