Homeschooling, the first step and best step. The best role model and teacher you can give her is her own mother, and then all your hopes ride on that. (which is better than the state)
The idea that the mother is a more important role-model pains me because its a job I can't do.
Any tips on how I can help my wife be the best possible role-model?
Since you obviously have some doubts about the quality of character when it comes to your wife, your best bet is to take the reigns properly, especially before the daughter is born. Once she is old enough to pick up on the dynamic between you too, it better be solid. Few things are more destructive for both girls and boys than to see the father not being in charge, or even whipped around by the mother.
When your girl is old enough (depends on her, no hard age limit here really) make sure your wife is cooking with her and having her help. My six year old can make an American breakfast - eggs, bacon, and toast. We started with having her do simple tasks like grate cheese, stir the pot, etc.
Also, prepare for the whining. Girls whine about everything.
You need to be the ideal you expect your daughter to find in a man, more in the hopes she chooses a man who will be a good father. Also make sure she knows how to get dirty and punch the first cunt to bully and pull her hair.
The father is the one who will set who/what she is. Do not discount that. Mother will be her role model until she starts to reliably speak/think for herself (around age 7), then it's the father who would do better to teach the child.
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