most don't really want help, they just want your sympathy, and to suck you emotionally dry.
Succubi are real. One of my best friends married one... holy fuck this is spot on. I can't stand to be around people like that, "Negative Nancies" or "Negative Nellies." People who always refuse to see the bright side - who actively fight against it when you try to suggest anything positive about their life (and eventually yours). Nope - I test the waters a few times then nope the fuck out with people like that. You're exactly right - they will just suck your positive energy (optimism, whatever) dry.
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