Humans are social creatures and tend to fear hermits. Why do you prefer solitude? Is it fear of humans, or disinterest (e.g. "I was reading about the Siege of Vienna...oh...you just want to talk about the Kardashians...plz no"), or enjoying primarily solitary hobbies, or ?
Deep emotional abuse from my parents and the eventual fracturing of many relationships which were destroyed by my mom, alongside the death of my wife. I've come to the conclusion i hate the world, and everyone in it, and have zero sympathy or care to try to even maintain shit relationships with people
Hey man this is going to sound cliche as fuck but you may want to consider therapy. I used to be somewhat like you, though deep down I really wanted to socialize and shit. Find one person you can truly rely on and talk to them about it if nothing else. It really does help to talk it out.
Hey man this is going to sound cliche as fuck but you may want to consider some more jewish brainwashing
Deep emotional abuse from my parents and the eventual fracturing of many relationships which were destroyed by my mom, alongside the death of my wife.
That'll do it... Jesus man. Like said people and they fear people who aren't social.
One of my primary mantras is to never assume attraction
This is good for your personal mental health but it turns people off and makes them wary. If you can, do the opposite and pretend there is attraction while in social situations until you can bail and decompress. You'll find that it puts other people ease with you and greases the social gears until you can be alone. Sorta like booze without drinking.
Most humans are social creatures. I myself hate interacting with people, always have been this way. No trauma, no abuse, I just don't like other people most of the time.
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