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So this is mostly a question I ask and i notice the answers i get back are pure fear, its almost hilarious. I was talking to my friend from church, and i was explaining that i do not see a point to friends, or dating, or any of this new age crap that is called socialization. Sure, i can have friends, but honestly, i am happier being with my dog than with people a lot of times. I also have a habit of using defensive socialization, and will always ere on me not being wanted, over being in a situation where i feel wanted. One of my primary mantras is to never assume attraction where none exists, and this could be for anything from dating, to making friends, to anything in between.

And yet, i seem to have pissed off a lot of people over this. I look around and i can visibly tell people are angry at me over something, i cant tell what it is, i cant tell why, but people seem to be abrupt, or even hostile at times. Maybe it is just the way they are, but i personally can tell these people hate me, and they are just hiding their true feelings from me.

So this is mostly a question I ask and i notice the answers i get back are pure fear, its almost hilarious. I was talking to my friend from church, and i was explaining that i do not see a point to friends, or dating, or any of this new age crap that is called socialization. Sure, i can have friends, but honestly, i am happier being with my dog than with people a lot of times. I also have a habit of using defensive socialization, and will always ere on me not being wanted, over being in a situation where i feel wanted. One of my primary mantras is to never assume attraction where none exists, and this could be for anything from dating, to making friends, to anything in between. And yet, i seem to have pissed off a lot of people over this. I look around and i can visibly tell people are angry at me over something, i cant tell what it is, i cant tell why, but people seem to be abrupt, or even hostile at times. Maybe it is just the way they are, but i personally can tell these people hate me, and they are just hiding their true feelings from me.

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Most people fall to peer pressure and group think.

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Damn. I thought we were going to talk about isolationism regarding US foreign policy.

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You are coping. Trying to rationalize where you are by justifying your past decisions and trying to convince yourself that this is where you want to be. It sounds like the very familiar refrain of 38 years old women "I really didn't want children anyway" while petting four cats. I hope you get better.

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You sound like a exceptional asshole. That may be why people don't like you. Small groups of friends are very beneficial, You may need someone to hold a ladder or help pick something up.

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Humans are social creatures and tend to fear hermits. Why do you prefer solitude? Is it fear of humans, or disinterest (e.g. "I was reading about the Siege of Vienna...oh...you just want to talk about the Kardashians...plz no"), or enjoying primarily solitary hobbies, or ?

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Deep emotional abuse from my parents and the eventual fracturing of many relationships which were destroyed by my mom, alongside the death of my wife. I've come to the conclusion i hate the world, and everyone in it, and have zero sympathy or care to try to even maintain shit relationships with people

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Hey man this is going to sound cliche as fuck but you may want to consider therapy. I used to be somewhat like you, though deep down I really wanted to socialize and shit. Find one person you can truly rely on and talk to them about it if nothing else. It really does help to talk it out.

Hey man this is going to sound cliche as fuck but you may want to consider some more jewish brainwashing

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Deep emotional abuse from my parents and the eventual fracturing of many relationships which were destroyed by my mom, alongside the death of my wife.

That'll do it... Jesus man. Like said people and they fear people who aren't social.

One of my primary mantras is to never assume attraction

This is good for your personal mental health but it turns people off and makes them wary. If you can, do the opposite and pretend there is attraction while in social situations until you can bail and decompress. You'll find that it puts other people ease with you and greases the social gears until you can be alone. Sorta like booze without drinking.

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Most humans are social creatures. I myself hate interacting with people, always have been this way. No trauma, no abuse, I just don't like other people most of the time.

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Because playing a defensive game is just waiting to get steam rolled.

I'm of the belief now that the best option to accept the geopolitical realities and begin to fix shit advantageously is execute cartels and annex Mexico militarily, hard balkanization with racial segregation and insure a fascist White male regime as permanent hegemon/arbiter over the 4 or 5 North America racial districts, then support a white Canadian insurgence and we send up our incel legions to help permanently red dawn the place.