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This users comment got me thinking about it. It occurs to me that men do enjoy a certain privilege that women do not. We can start families in our 40s and build a strong healthy family by the time we pass away. Women are more or less excluded from this.

So is starting a family late in life a good idea? (Remember, Hitler was sired when his father was 55 years old.) Opinions and first-hand experience welcome.

https://poal.co/s/News/368212/d6b7cc34-c019-4fb2-b470-865d5a353bef#cmnts This users comment got me thinking about it. It occurs to me that men do enjoy a certain privilege that women do not. We can start families in our 40s and build a strong healthy family by the time we pass away. Women are more or less excluded from this. So is starting a family late in life a good idea? (Remember, Hitler was sired when his father was 55 years old.) Opinions and first-hand experience welcome.

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[–] • 8 pts

I've mentioned this story here a few ties but it bears repeating, as it goes to directly to the question.

A buddy of mine never wanted kids. He married a woman who also didn't want kids. They were doing fine until she demanded they have kids, which soured the relationship quickly. The divorce was bitter and ugly and not long after he met another woman who changed his life. He had his first kid at 40 and a second at 42. He could not be a happier man.

I asked him if he regretted not having kids with the first wife and he said, "fuck no! She would have been a horrible mother and my kids would be 1/4 Jewish."

There's the funny part. He now advocates for white men to marry Jewish women and keep them childless until they can't have kids, then dump them and marry younger white women. That's just too much work for me but it really is playing the long game for the species and you kinda have to admire the idea.

[–] • 4 pts

He really took it to the next level. Mad respect.

[–] • 1 pt

He didn't do it on purpose, but he took advantage of the opportunity that came to him.

[–] • 3 pts

He deserves a fucking medal.

[–] • 1 pt

Improvise. Adapt. Overcome.

[–] • 4 pts

"There's the funny part. He now advocates for white men to marry Jewish women and keep them childless until they can't have kids, then dump them and marry younger white women. That's just too much work for me but it really is playing the long game for the species and you kinda have to admire the idea"

That's awesome.

[–] • 2 pts

That's awesome.

Fucking diabolical.

[–] [deleted] • 0 pt

Literally lol'd.

I wouldn't do it though, the wrath of a scorned woman and what not.

[–] • 0 pt

the wrath of a scorned woman and what not.

I've scorned plenty of women in my life but never to that extent. I also can't imagine purposefully marrying someone just to keep her out of the gene pool.

[–] • 8 pts

My dad made me in his fifties, i turned out nice! Just autistic enough to call this board and others like it; home.

[–] • 0 pt

Did you have brothers and sisters, or half brothers and sisters that he had earlier in life? Or was he just late to the game?

[–] • 7 pts

You really want to be running after toddlers in your 40s ? Have teenagers in your 60s instead of enjoying retirement and traveling? Die before getting to know your grandkids? It's very unnatural. Have lots of kids when you are young when you have the energy and relax when your old.

[–] • 6 pts

What a jew thing to say. Retire? Travel? Fucking degenerate faggot kids are your wealth and the land you own and your family.. travel where? To Europe? Nope to Las Vegas? I'd rather sit around in my 60s teaching my children then traveling and wasting fucking money

[–] • 0 pt

Jews say to not have kids at all. As long as youre having some that's all that matters. I'm guessing you're a man so it's nice and easy for you but woman having kids after 40 becomes much more difficult so keep that in mind too.

[–] • 4 pts

I think you’re dead on about having a lack of energy in your 40s and 50s. I don’t agree with your glorification of retirement. I call that being unemployed. You just stop doing anything productive and wallow in your gluttony while you wait for death? And traveling sucks when you are old. Do that while you are young.

[–] [deleted] • 7 pts

If you have a lack of energy in your 40s and 50s it's because you ate like shit, and didn't exercise. You should be fit, and healthy at that age.

[–] • 1 pt

I don't have personal experience with that, but observationaly it seems true.

[–] • 6 pts

Destroying global jewry is a lifetime kind of job. No retirement plans available.

[–] • 1 pt

Your great grandkids get to relax.

[–] • 5 pts

What the fuck Is wrong with you people I'm 46 just turned.. at 45 I ran my first 10 mile run. I lift 3 days a week. I build houses.. I have more energy now that I'm eating healthy and drinking less then I did in my 30s.. get out and get shit done have white kids

[–] • 1 pt

One of the things that got me thinking about this is I met a guy last week that just turned 60, divorced 6 months ago. He had the vitality and optimism of a 30 year old. He was on point with his diet and exercise. Could have passed for 10-15 years younger. His house had this feel where I just know there will be a fertile woman living in it with him.

[–] • 4 pts

I dont have any trouble playing with my kids in my 40s. I am in better shape than most people my age. Just stay in shape you should be fine.

[–] • 2 pts

Completely agree. I'm in great shape, take care of myself well, I see no reason why in my 40s I can't enjoy taking care of a child.

[–] • 1 pt

Haha you're saying you have as much energy in your 20s and 30s than 40 and 50s? Really? It's not about being unemployed. It's about enjoy your decades of hard work and doing whatever the fuck you want. Look if you want to work till you die just to say you have money go and buried with all that cash you worked so hard for. I'm looking forward to seeing my grandkids grow up (maybe even being there to see them get married and have families themselves) and spending the money I worked hard for.

[–] • 3 pts

If you struggle to chase toddlers in your 40s that's you own god awful choices at play. Likely donuts, beer and Beetus. I'm fitter now than my semi-decent 20s and shouldn't dip too much till my late 50s at earliest.

There's well known drinkers that come into my shop in their 70s who would put people in their 30s to shame. The 3 of them still work as labourers.

[–] • 0 pt

It is not about struggleing to run after toddlers in your 40s. You can't argue anyone younger that 40 can beat your energy level though. If you're too unhealthy to run at any age you probably shouldn't have kids to begin with.

It also doesn't matter what you do in your 70s. If you want to work then go for it. The whole point is there's a difference in wanting to work in your 70s and not being able to do what you want cause you have to work.

[–] • 3 pts

I'm 41 now with a 3 year old son. There are pros and cons to both sides.

I'm more mature now and hopefully a bit wiser than I was in my early 20s. More financially stable, so I'm able to do things like cutting work back to part time so I can spend time raising my son (don't need to work overtime to pay interest to jews on a home loan).

It can be physically tiring and I definitely don't have the energy I use to have. I'm hoping that my son will decide to have a family earlier, so I will be able to enjoy being a grandparent.

Given the chance, i'd say have kids early. They're great fun and give meaning to your life.

[–] • 3 pts

I think its better to wait. My brothers all had kids at a young age. I focused on schooling and my career and now am starting a family in my 40s with my 15 year younger wife. My brothers kids are ok but they grew up under unstable family circumstances. My family has been very stable and I have 4 kids (including one on the way). I couldnt even imagine having kids 20 years ago. I am nothing like the man I was then. I think I am a much better father than I could have been in my 20s and 30s.

[–] • 2 pts

Agreed. No children yet but i'd like to follow a similar path.

15 years younger? Perfect.

All the best, man!

[–] • 0 pt

I'm hoping I end up like this in the future. Similar age gap, but I'm mid 30s, one kid.

Do you homeschool? How long did you wait between kids?

[–] • 0 pt

I would love to homeschool. I was homeschooled. My wife doesn't want to. Fortunately we have the best rated headstart in the nation and our charter school teaches stuff like fishing, hunting, sugarbush, snowmobiling. I don't want to prep them for college for any reason, rather they should have life skills. A lot of my friends do homeschool their kids but they live quite a bit further from me. They are 6, 4, 2, and -2 months. Good luck to you also, their is no guidebook but just follow your gut. Fuck all this modernity! Go back to basics.

[–] • 3 pts

No, because you want to act as a strong patriarch and leave behind plenty for your children and grandchildren. If you have kids too late you are likely to die before your grandchildren are even old enough to remember you.

You also want to find a suitable wife ASAP. The good ones will have younger men already courting them by the time you're 40. That leaves "having more money" as the deciding factor, and you might get left with an immature golddigger.

Life doesn't always work out the way you expect. I had a finance and we bought a house and started on kids when I was 26. Two miscarriages later everything fell apart and I ended up owning a house alone. Now gotta regroup and probably have kids alone or with a co-parent. I don't see it happening until I'm ~28. Not great, but you gotta work with what you can.

If you do it early enough you'll have time to regroup and make a new gameplan if life implodes on you. If you're older and lose the oppertunity it could be tremendously difficult to recoup and get back on track in a timely manner. Especially if you are unlucky enough to develop something like cancer or an illness that makes it impossible to have children anymore.

Do the hard part now so you are secure with your future and your bloodline. Then you can sit back and enjoy the "later" knowing the most important and difficult parts are said and done with.

[–] • 1 pt

Most reasonable response so far.

[–] • 0 pt

Or you take care of yourself and find a woman in her 20s when you're more established in your 40s and enjoy the best of both worlds.

[–] • 1 pt

You're looking at a very small market, bud.

Most sane girls don't want to marry men twice their age and have to spend such a large part of their lives as a widow.

[–] • 0 pt (edited )

Get in better shape, read more, learn new skills, make sure you're great in bed, etc.

40 year old man and 25-30 year old woman. How is that twice their age?

Women love status and power and men love youth and beauty. You can't expect a young(er) woman to be with you if you're a bum but if you're desirable, there's no issue.

Edit: i see the way i phrased my initial comment and it does sound like double their age. My point still stands- if you're an "average" man, this will be difficult.

[–] • 2 pts

Financially, it's a lot easier for guys in their 40s to support a family since they are usually well established in their careers and shouldn't have a lot of debt.

But kids are exhausting. I don't think I've met anyone who started having a family after 40 and had more than two kids.

[–] • 1 pt

Thank the kike and usury lifestyle for this bullshit.

[–] • 0 pt

I know a few people that started late and made it to four or five kids. They were either wealthy enough to have full-time hired help or had a huge local family network for support. Or both.

[–] • 1 pt

Yeah, I guess if you're wealthy enough to hire people to help, then any age if ok. But once you start hitting your 50s, there's a higher chance of having an injury or issue that limits activities you can do with your kids.

[–] • 1 pt

It's the best part of being a man. You can knock up women until your dead, ever after in some cases.

[–] [deleted] • 1 pt (edited )

My dad had me in his 40's. I'm no doubt a bit autistic and overall less healthy, intelligent and functioning than my older siblings born when my father was much younger.

You shouldn't wait that long unless you have no other choice, sperm quality degrades too and you will put your children at a genetic disadvantage in life.

[–] • 1 pt

There is an increased chance of autism and a few other health related issues for the children of men of advanced age, but for the most part you are absolutely right that it is doable for men while women aren't that lucky.

Good luck finding a fertile, unvaccinated woman that will make an excellent mother however

[–] [deleted] • 1 pt

I say have kids when you're in your 30s. Never in your 20s. 20-somethings are retards.

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