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I am recently single. Relatively high income but white european living in Midwest.

All mainstream dating (Tinder, etc) are absolute trash. I thought the Midwest was home to trad wives, but all I saw on online dating was fats, retards, single moms, tattoos and sluts. I deleted the app because I know it’s just another trap.

So that being said, how then does dating work these days? If I want to start a family, what can I do to find a decent, attractive, non-whore who won’t divorce me in 5 years and take everything?

I’m starting to think that it may be better getting a surrogate and just being a single dad. Women in the US seem to be absolutely fucked.

I am recently single. Relatively high income but white european living in Midwest. All mainstream dating (Tinder, etc) are absolute trash. I thought the Midwest was home to trad wives, but all I saw on online dating was fats, retards, single moms, tattoos and sluts. I deleted the app because I know it’s just another trap. So that being said, how then does dating work these days? If I want to start a family, what can I do to find a decent, attractive, non-whore who won’t divorce me in 5 years and take everything? I’m starting to think that it may be better getting a surrogate and just being a single dad. Women in the US seem to be absolutely fucked.

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[–] • 6 pts

Dont listen to the ugly doomers who tell you its too late. Its gonna be hard but you can do it. Its not gonna be easy but you can. Take on hobbies where you can meet groups. Grt out there, make efforts. Its not gonna fall on your laps.

[–] • 1 pt

Jagon is correct. Early 30's is a very normal time to find someone and settle down, you didn't "miss the boat" or whatever.

[–] • 0 pt

Actually, I find the hobby/interest focus works better. It's like if someone tells you to do something funny, it's really difficult to be funny. If you're just hanging around or if you're doing something else, it's easier to be funny when the focus isn't put on that. I guess one problem is male interests are usually full of males and female interests full of females.