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I am recently single. Relatively high income but white european living in Midwest.

All mainstream dating (Tinder, etc) are absolute trash. I thought the Midwest was home to trad wives, but all I saw on online dating was fats, retards, single moms, tattoos and sluts. I deleted the app because I know it’s just another trap.

So that being said, how then does dating work these days? If I want to start a family, what can I do to find a decent, attractive, non-whore who won’t divorce me in 5 years and take everything?

I’m starting to think that it may be better getting a surrogate and just being a single dad. Women in the US seem to be absolutely fucked.

I am recently single. Relatively high income but white european living in Midwest. All mainstream dating (Tinder, etc) are absolute trash. I thought the Midwest was home to trad wives, but all I saw on online dating was fats, retards, single moms, tattoos and sluts. I deleted the app because I know it’s just another trap. So that being said, how then does dating work these days? If I want to start a family, what can I do to find a decent, attractive, non-whore who won’t divorce me in 5 years and take everything? I’m starting to think that it may be better getting a surrogate and just being a single dad. Women in the US seem to be absolutely fucked.

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[–] • 3 pts

I wish I could help but I’m pretty demoralized when it comes to women which takes the fun out of dating, and when you’re not having fun it makes it hard for things to go anywhere. Keep that in mind and moderate your mindset if you can.

women do exist who aren’t complete trash and dating sites are the norm so I wouldn’t abandon them, just remember that there are good women who don’t like it but use them for the same reason. But also meet women in real life because that still happens too.

As for vetting them I wish I had good advice but listening to those quiet uneasy feelings is probably the best metric anyone will ever have.

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women do exist who aren’t complete trash

no

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You are gonna get a beatin’

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Yeah, but I was going to anyway :(