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I am recently single. Relatively high income but white european living in Midwest.

All mainstream dating (Tinder, etc) are absolute trash. I thought the Midwest was home to trad wives, but all I saw on online dating was fats, retards, single moms, tattoos and sluts. I deleted the app because I know it’s just another trap.

So that being said, how then does dating work these days? If I want to start a family, what can I do to find a decent, attractive, non-whore who won’t divorce me in 5 years and take everything?

I’m starting to think that it may be better getting a surrogate and just being a single dad. Women in the US seem to be absolutely fucked.

I am recently single. Relatively high income but white european living in Midwest. All mainstream dating (Tinder, etc) are absolute trash. I thought the Midwest was home to trad wives, but all I saw on online dating was fats, retards, single moms, tattoos and sluts. I deleted the app because I know it’s just another trap. So that being said, how then does dating work these days? If I want to start a family, what can I do to find a decent, attractive, non-whore who won’t divorce me in 5 years and take everything? I’m starting to think that it may be better getting a surrogate and just being a single dad. Women in the US seem to be absolutely fucked.

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Join a local hiking group. There are many on Facebook/meet up. Niggers don’t typically hike or like the outdoors for that matter. Hiking is wholesome. Best dating advice I can give is not to lay with a women whose problems are worse than your own. Good luck and may you have many “white” children.

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This is where I've found the most success, however there will be very few people under 30. If you are older its great. If you're 25, well, I hope you have a geezer fetish.

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How old are you? The age limit to successfully marry is 25. After this age limit, all you will find are divorced alcoholic moms, or mentally unstable, promiscuous libtards.

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If OP is relatively affluent and is willing to meet groups of people, the chances are fine. Don't listen to the basement dwellers.

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I am in my early 30s. I’d happily marry a young tradwife

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Dont listen to the ugly doomers who tell you its too late. Its gonna be hard but you can do it. Its not gonna be easy but you can. Take on hobbies where you can meet groups. Grt out there, make efforts. Its not gonna fall on your laps.

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Jagon is correct. Early 30's is a very normal time to find someone and settle down, you didn't "miss the boat" or whatever.

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Actually, I find the hobby/interest focus works better. It's like if someone tells you to do something funny, it's really difficult to be funny. If you're just hanging around or if you're doing something else, it's easier to be funny when the focus isn't put on that. I guess one problem is male interests are usually full of males and female interests full of females.

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They only exist on pre-70s TV shows

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Tradwives aren't born, they're made.

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It's over, son. Find yourself a hobby and stay celibate.

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This is anti-White advice and also not realistic. I agree that young marriages are best assuming cultural support to keep them intact, but in most women’s minds they picture themselves around 28 and meeting a man in his early to mid 30s to marry.

It’s by no means over, and you’re actually at a good age for trying to get it right.

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Lol this shill. “Give up so we don’t have more white children”. Thanks, rabbi

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What's the reason not to go for a younger woman at that point?

Implying early 30's men never marry 20 something women

Kek

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Hey fuck you. Don’t tell him that! How fucking dare you.

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Grocery stores, coffee shops, gyms, work etc... Find a social hobby and seek excellence. The woman will be there. You're going to have to cold approach women though.

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NOT gyms. Leave the women alone at the gym.

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100% agree - Do not poach women when they're trying to exercise.

You can speak to them outside of the gym but they're at the gym for a purpose which should remain their primary focus.

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You can absolutely pick good women up at a gym. Just don't be a creep.

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Creep: someone who is unattractive and not wealthy.

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Yes, if they initiate. Otherwise, absolutely do not engage.

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Creep: anyone who does not have 10/10 looks

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Get a hobby. Do the hobby with others. Find women.

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Go to the grocery store! They have them in every aisle!!!

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I wish I could help but I’m pretty demoralized when it comes to women which takes the fun out of dating, and when you’re not having fun it makes it hard for things to go anywhere. Keep that in mind and moderate your mindset if you can.

women do exist who aren’t complete trash and dating sites are the norm so I wouldn’t abandon them, just remember that there are good women who don’t like it but use them for the same reason. But also meet women in real life because that still happens too.

As for vetting them I wish I had good advice but listening to those quiet uneasy feelings is probably the best metric anyone will ever have.

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women do exist who aren’t complete trash

no

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You are gonna get a beatin’

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Yeah, but I was going to anyway :(

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Remember Single Sane Sexy. You only get to pick two. If she is single and sane, she ain't sexy. If she is single and sexy, she ain't sane. If she is sane and sexy, she isn't single.

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Haha this is actually pretty good advice.

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Do you think I can handle a sexy single girl by being more insane than her?

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So true. This theory of 2/3's is applicable on a variety of things.

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In the last few small Christian churches, not anything mainstream, there are still families raising daughters to be housewives. But you're not going to have any success there unless you're also a Christian.

There are lots of nice girls out there, but there are no secular groups who are intentionally bringing up girls to be good wives and mothers.

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I’m starting to think that it may be better getting a surrogate and just being a single dad. Women in the US seem to be absolutely fucked.

I do not think this is a wise idea. You are not equiped for this job emotionally or physically. There’s a reason women are so crazy. We were built for that job and you aren’t.

Not to mention the genetic dross you are going to get from a donor. And the psychos who rent out their uterus will have your kid for 9 months. Your child will not be as healthy without breast feeding. I could go on.

Why don’t you try going to some conservatard events? There have got to be some decent women at those. Or church?

Look there are a lot of women out there that are not communist whores and just want a normal non-pozzed life. They are not likely to be on tinder. Keep looking for the places you think you might be likely to connect with non-communist women.

If you cant find a 25 yr old who weighs 125 lbs, maybe you can find a 34 yr old who weighs 140. I mean seriously if you are at the point of considering a surrogate this is a much better option.

Women generally get more conservative as they age. So a politically moderate woman in their 20s could be completely fashy by 40. So just focus on non-communists who want to pump the breaks on all this progressive sexuality shit.

I think hi IQ is a very good thing and I would try to shoot for at least a 110. You’re children will thank you.

Maybe you want to advertise that you are willing to financially support a wife that wants to be a full time mom. Most women hate their jobs.

Don’t give up. We really need some sort of right wing dating service.

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There is jdate. And all kinds of ethnic dating. Whites-only dating? Can you imagine the kvetching!!!

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Why don’t you check out a few of the ones listed here?

https://www.datingadvice.com/online-dating/conservative-dating-sites

I would be cautious. But it might be a place to start.

The white race is counting on you.

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Holy shit. Ask a relationship question get an antireligion answer. You have to go where the girls are. Grocery stores, clothing stores. Take every effort to be nonchalant or you come off as creepy. Always open as if they are the only one who can help you figure things out. It rolls out easy from there. I'm over the hill and still dating up twenty year olds. Not to pump and dump but to find good company. Rare as fuck. Do everything for your own entertainment. Do everything for your own entertainment! Girls will follow.

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