You sound like a fucking degenerate. "Getting drunk" with your partner? Fuck off with that horseshit. > If a guy I was dating asked me about my past sexual relations, it would set off alarm bells: immature, arrogant, controlling, jealous, judge mental, suspicious and low self-esteem. No way would I board that mustache ride of misery. ...And I’ve only been with two people. I'd think the opposite to this, personally. That he values virginity or a very very low sexual partner count as a trait he is proud of, in his choice of mate.