The most immature question to ask your partner is “how many people have you slept with.” . I don’t want to think about my man with another woman and I sure don’t want him to picture me with another man. “Have you been tested” and “how much time has passed since your last relationship” and “does this feel good?” is all the investigation you should be performing into their sex closet. If you fear she’s been with a lot of men and that’s a problem for you, get to know her better before you start sleeping with her. Get drunk with her, go on a trip, meet her friends, let her feel comfortable around you, the truth always shows it’s head. Hey, who knows, maybe you get to like all her experience in the bedroom or maybe you can be a good Christian and simply forgive her. Bottom line is, don’t ask what time will reveal. Sounds like you might be the one jumping into bed too quickly. If a guy I was dating asked me about my past sexual relations, it would set off alarm bells: immature, arrogant, controlling, jealous, judge mental, suspicious and low self-esteem. No way would I board that mustache ride of misery. ...And I’ve only been with two people. Anyway, I’d put all my money that with those personality traits, man in question is no Don Juan, that’s for sure. For all you sex deprived jerk-offs out there - that’s code for “bad lover.”