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Did any of you choose to be single, especially going into your forties? Do you regret that choice? I'm facing a situation where a woman wants me to commit hard but I'm not sure I can give up the freedom.

Did any of you choose to be single, especially going into your forties? Do you regret that choice? I'm facing a situation where a woman wants me to commit hard but I'm not sure I can give up the freedom.

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[–] 8 pts

What freedom will you lose?

A good wife is an incredible asset, and if you want to have kids, having a traditional wife that will be a fulltime mother is the most important resource on the planet.

[–] 4 pts

Yeah after having a kid you realize you ‘freedom’ was drinking on weekends and being a lazy slob. Not freedom.

[–] 3 pts

You mean drinking all week and drinking while being a lazy slob on the weekends.

[–] 3 pts

Exactly. Freedom to do what? Play COD for 6 hours every night then view porn like a degenerate. Or go out drinking every night. Or binge watch Jewflix shows every night?

How about reading your son a story about Knights, putting him to bed, and having a drink with your wife talking about how much you hate commies. That's much more freeing and consoling than being effeminate.

[–] 0 pt

Usually what people say can be boiled down to that: "I won't be able to be a lazy slob and play with my friends all day." or "Don't want to put the brakes on the 'pussy train'."