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Did any of you choose to be single, especially going into your forties? Do you regret that choice? I'm facing a situation where a woman wants me to commit hard but I'm not sure I can give up the freedom.

Did any of you choose to be single, especially going into your forties? Do you regret that choice? I'm facing a situation where a woman wants me to commit hard but I'm not sure I can give up the freedom.

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[–] • 29 pts

Are you white and a non-degenerate?

Is she white and a non-degenerate who is not commie whore?

If the answer is yes then get married and have babies. Fuck your fucking freedom, you have a duty to the white race. We are in a crisis. This is what you must do. You will do it for your people. Stop fucking around.

Sometimes times will be hard and you wont always get along. You will tell yourself in those times that you are doing what needs to be done for civilization to continue.

Growing old alone sucks anyway. Freedom is overrated. If you aren’t going to have kids Id still say do it, but if you and she can have kids, fucking do it. And brainwash the fuck out of those kids to hate degeneracy and communism.

[–] • 12 pts (edited )

And brainwash the fuck out of those kids to hate degeneracy and communism.

Why aren't your children reading ?

[–] • 1 pt

The Fable of the Ducks and the Hens

Price: $14.88

kek

[–] • 1 pt

Wow THANK YOU. I have been looking for things just like this for teaching children lessons they'll need to know to protect themselves in this world. Do you have any other recommendations?

Ordered this immediately.

[–] • 0 pt

Couldn't this just as easily make your kids hate you?

[–] • 3 pts (edited )

There might be a "fuck you dad" rejection, but that is an inevitability with any child, on any platform/dogma/view you program them to have.

Kids raised with that solid foundation almost always come around and see the truth.

And honestly, if your children don't occasionally hate you, you have failed as a parent.

They will eventually fully understand, and thank you. Especially when they begin raising your grandkids.

I know I did.

[–] • 2 pts

Yes which is a better prospect than going extinct.

When you plant conservative seeds early in life, there is a good chance your kids will come back to conservative values later in life even if they go through a period of leftist degeneracy and rebel against your values.

[–] • 2 pts

No.

Truth resonates. Use logic, reason, and love to present the truth.

I know, because I'm teaching mine these things. They're always with me when they can be, even though two are of the age where parents aren't cool anymore.

The secret to that is to take away the enemy's propaganda machines. Don't let it into your home.

[–] • -1 pt

Upvote 4 name made me laf

[–] • 6 pts

Upvote 4 for your name, as it made me laf laugh.

FTFY. Don't you ever emulate nigger-tier chimp sounds on this site again, you fucking mongoloid.

[–] • 5 pts

Your post needs to be stickied to the front page of Poal permanently.

[–] • 3 pts

As if anyone needed anymore proof, this is why you're an honorary-bro Helena-Bro.

[–] • 1 pt

We are all degenerates in the eye of the Lord!

[–] [deleted] • 0 pt

Their only god is skin color, a lot of them believe white people are gods. But good luck with that.

[–] • 0 pt

Who believes white people are gods?

[–] • -1 pt

I... I'm ok with that, would anyone like to lick my holy testicles?

[–] • 0 pt

I have 7 children and I do this. Its a really hard fight though.

[–] • 0 pt

4 here. Kids are great, but you have to marry a woman who values and practices traditional morals and values or your life will be living Hell.

Stop being selfish OP and start a family. The White birthrate is low because people are selfish and only concerned with their own fleeting pleasure instead of the reward of self-sacrifice and raising children.

I hate posts like this. Man up OP.

[–] • 0 pt

You are a SAINT! You are going straight to Valhalla when you die.

[–] • 0 pt

After WE got married you stopped playing night games with me, and stay out til the wee hours with your boyfriends :(

[–] • 14 pts

Well I didn't choose it at first, I was widowed, but now I am choosing it. I have my children and my house, and now I have a full time job. I have no desire to start another relationship. And frankly I don't have the time. I'd rather chill in my sweat pants with my kids every night than bother with trying to talk to or meet men.

[–] [deleted] • 2 pts

i was widowed youngish. been on my own 16 years. sometimes i wish i had a fella to hold hands with, and laugh with. i love men. almost everything about them, White ones that is. but i've been out of the game so long i am at a loss as how to even connect in a romantic way. i am scared, too. i can be suckered by a pretty face.

[–] • 0 pt

I'm 37. For me it's not just the time thing, it's also the pair bonding thing. I'm in love with a dead man. And I don't think I could give another man my full love. And that is not fair.

[–] [deleted] • 1 pt

you are young yet. give it a few years. there'll be a yearning for companionship. don't let it go on as long as i did.

[–] • 2 pts
[–] • 1 pt

I know how you feel. I'm in the same exact place.

[–] • 8 pts

What freedom will you lose?

A good wife is an incredible asset, and if you want to have kids, having a traditional wife that will be a fulltime mother is the most important resource on the planet.

[–] • 4 pts

Yeah after having a kid you realize you ‘freedom’ was drinking on weekends and being a lazy slob. Not freedom.

[–] • 3 pts

You mean drinking all week and drinking while being a lazy slob on the weekends.

[–] • 3 pts

Exactly. Freedom to do what? Play COD for 6 hours every night then view porn like a degenerate. Or go out drinking every night. Or binge watch Jewflix shows every night?

How about reading your son a story about Knights, putting him to bed, and having a drink with your wife talking about how much you hate commies. That's much more freeing and consoling than being effeminate.

[–] • 0 pt

Usually what people say can be boiled down to that: "I won't be able to be a lazy slob and play with my friends all day." or "Don't want to put the brakes on the 'pussy train'."

[–] [deleted] • 5 pts

I'm happily married for 23 years, so here's my take. Every person makes choices for reasons. If a woman is pushing hard for a commitment, it's surely because she sees something tangible to gain. It's probably not about wanting you, but wanting what's yours.

If her income is not higher than your income, you are in her mind a financial windfall. It doesn't matter how good or bad the sex is, or how much you have in common. It's about having for herself the things that are yours. Beware!

Keep this one at arms length. Only fuck her at her house. Keep her out of yours. And by all means, find a side-chick, then let her get wind of the competition. Money-diggers are lazy and seldom stick around when it comes to out-doing the competition. If you are not an easy target, this arrow will fly away.

[–] [deleted] • 2 pts

Interesting take. How even are your finances OP? Do you pay for most things OP?

[–] [deleted] • 3 pts

Retired. Doing pretty well. Here's my back story regarding the wife.

I was a long haul trucker when I ate at Denny's in Chicago. She was the manager. My health was getting pretty bad from too many years on the road. She acted interested. I ended up stopping in three times and then she made me the offer: "If you want to quit trucking, you can just live with me. Don't gotta work, don't gotta marry, can stay forever or just a week".

Next April, I quit, ditched the truck at the terminal in St. Louis. She drove there and picked me up. Took me home. I didn't work for a year and she never bitched about it at all. Denny's paid her pretty good. But Chic ago winters are brutal, so I said I gotta go south, with or without her. She got a transfer to Spartanburg, SC. I asked to go part-time in the restaurant, and became a weekend dishwasher and had a blast doing simple shit with goof-ball co-workers - for minimum wage. Went from $80k per year trucking to unemployed to minimum wage, and she supported my every decision. Now that's a keeper!

Went back to trucking for a few more years, then on a whim, started an appliance repair business, and guess who became the manager. I ran the repairs, she ran the office. What a team! And as I type, she's in the kitchen making me a sammich. Hahahaha!

The right one is a delight. But this is my second marriage. The first one... I got took. Bad. So again, be careful!

*turkey with cheese, grilled, corn chips and a pickle just landed in front of me. Gotta go!

[–] [deleted] • 0 pt

I meant the thread OP and his girls financials. Nice story though there. Glad everything worked out for you. Always good to see something positive on this site haha. I did some part time dishwashing not terribly long ago. It's pretty fun if you have a good kitchen crew even if you don't make shit.

[–] • 1 pt (edited )

If I was in a relationship with a man and I got wind of him having someone else, that's an instant dealbreaker and would result in the relationship being instantly over. That's degenerate behaviour. Loyalty is the #1 trait above all else. I'm not the silver medal to anyone's affections.

Fortunately, my husband didn't play this headgame horseshit with me and shares the same views.

That being said though, the bit you said about the finances is true for most women.

[–] • 0 pt

If a woman is pushing hard for a commitment, it's surely because she sees something tangible to gain. It's probably not about wanting you, but wanting what's yours.

Women’s primary focus should be having kids. Of course every woman who focuses on raising kids (WHAT WE NEED NOW) will need a bread winner. Males want something too out of marriage someone to birth and raise kids , manage the household. A tangible gain.

That is what marriage is for.

Fucking retarded males on this forum constantly complaining about women choosing careers over kids but then bitch that a female might have concern for the financial well being for herself and her children.

Keep this one at arms length. Only fuck her at her house. Keep her out of yours. And by all means, find a side-chick, then let her get wind of the competition.

This is how we got here folks^

Degeneracy.

[–] • 5 pts

Whats the divorce rate again? And how many are initiated by the female..?

Uh huh, yeah I'll take the private pilot license, guns, and and video games. Oh and my investments.. if they work out, maybe I can own a plane and a second home in the Caribbean.

The decision shouldn't be as easy as it is, but women are foolish whores today. No compassion anymore either.

[–] • 5 pts (edited )

All I know, more than anything, I hate living with regret. I see "oh boy, I'm happy and single! Time to get in another relationship and be miserable again!"

[–] • 5 pts

Evolution is a harsh mistress. Humans are meant to pair up, be husband and wife, and that is fulfilling. But it doesn't necessarily make either of you happy, and today's society says that being unhappy is grounds for tearing it apart. And as a man you get to bear the brunt of the consequences when that happens.

Unless you're sure she is willing to truly commit, "for richer or for poorer, in sickness or in health, until death do you part", remember that you may wind up shouldering that burden. But if you're not willing then something will be missing in your life. It's a catch 22 and a difficult decision.

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[–] • 4 pts (edited )

but I'm not sure I can give up the freedom.

Being "free" in your 20s is a blessing. Plenty of women, plenty of time, no strings etc.

Being "free" in your middle age is probably going to mean being married to your job or being very bored

Being "free" in old age is going to mean being very lonely and vulnerable.

Plan ahead. You're not a nigger. Wanting to preserve your "freedom" to fuck around by never settling down is like spending your paycheck on payday and regretting it the rest of the month.

There's also the question of duty: Your ancestors sacrificed everything to put you where you are now. What are you going to spend their sacrifice on? I'm not saying the answer has to be raising a family, but if you just want to spend it on yourself then that's pretty selfish.

[–] • 0 pt

My ancestors are dead, if my lineage ends with me they will never know anyway.

[–] • 3 pts

About the time you choose to be single women start falling all over you. Being content with being single apparently makes you more attractive.

[–] [deleted] • 3 pts

i hate it

[–] • 2 pts

that's because you're with another guy.

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