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I know right off the bat you fags will say "You should never loan money to friends..." but let's put it into context...about two years ago one of my best friends was having custody issues with his ex over his son....she is a meth junkie, he is a hard working guy that doesn't make tons of money but gets by...I dont make tons of cash either but have always kept a good nest egg for "just in case" situations, I told him I'd give him an open ended loan of $1500 to start the custody battle process, that he could payback over time in any way possible without putting him or his family in a financial bind. (He won in the courts and has full custodyof his son since)...over the two years he managed to pay $300 on it which was fine...those were the terms. This year around tax season and Biden bucks I estimated he raked in around $10,000....he talked about clearing all his debts, to which I said...."Clear up all your bills, and whatever your family needs before closing the debt with me...family first..." Well yesterday I got on Faceberg as I do when I'm hungover and being lazy to see my friend has bought him a nice new motorcycle.....Initially I became pissed, and remain pissed (More offended, or hurt...but pissed!) Thoughts? Am I being a bitch about it?

I know right off the bat you fags will say "You should never loan money to friends..." but let's put it into context...about two years ago one of my best friends was having custody issues with his ex over his son....she is a meth junkie, he is a hard working guy that doesn't make tons of money but gets by...I dont make tons of cash either but have always kept a good nest egg for "just in case" situations, I told him I'd give him an open ended loan of $1500 to start the custody battle process, that he could payback over time in any way possible without putting him or his family in a financial bind. (He won in the courts and has full custodyof his son since)...over the two years he managed to pay $300 on it which was fine...those were the terms. This year around tax season and Biden bucks I estimated he raked in around $10,000....he talked about clearing all his debts, to which I said...."Clear up all your bills, and whatever your family needs before closing the debt with me...family first..." Well yesterday I got on Faceberg as I do when I'm hungover and being lazy to see my friend has bought him a nice new motorcycle.....Initially I became pissed, and remain pissed (More offended, or hurt...but pissed!) Thoughts? Am I being a bitch about it?

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you're a fucking retard if you think """trust""" and """selfless behavior""" belongs only to whites. what are you gonna do if you borrow a lawn mower from a nonwhite? return it broken cause fuck niggers?

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what are you gonna do if you borrow a lawn mower from a nonwhite? return it broken cause fuck niggers?

  1. The only reason a nigger would have a lawnmower would be if he had stolen mine
  2. I wouldn't borrow anything from a nigger, because by my values that would mean I would owe him something
  3. I would be clearly doing something wrong with my life if I was still living next door to niggers at my age.

you're a fucking retard if you think """trust""" and """selfless behavior""" belongs only to whites.

Yes, this is an interesting social science question. And since we have a whole African continent to observe over many centuries, then that would be the ideal place to see if trust and selfless behaviour has ever emerged in their culture? Looking at their history, they engaged in endless brutal tribal wars to acquire slaves and they failed to build anything. And when handed a modern White culture to build upon, they rapidly reverted back to tribal wars and genocides instead. I think they are pretty good reasons to say that trust and selfless behaviour have never developed within any African society