Some people are not good with money as they fail to prioritise and tend to buy on impulse, they will always fail at life because being able to handle money is key to a stable future.
Somewhere in his tiny brain he will have rationalised that getting a bike now was a better deal than putting his friendship first. He was wrong, he is also probably a slow learner.
You aren't helping him by being accommodating, when he had that $10K you should have told him you needed that money back, not give his tiny brain a reason to defer it.
I lent my friend £20, he never bothered to pay me back. Later I never bothered to call him a friend. His loss was vastly more significant than mine, and I've saved myself any future grief at having to put up with his lack of values. Last I heard he was drinking a lot.
Men have one good name, some men recognise just how important it is that they can be trusted by others, and some don't. You sound like you have a good set of values.
Point out his mistake and then stop speaking to him. If he pays you back then good, he's learning, if he doesn't then that's also a good result for you.
People need to learn to say "no!" I've had two ex-girlfriends hit me up for money. I said "no" in both cases. I always say "no" when it's something I don't want to do. Organized charities get a big, fat "no" when they put their hand out to me. People I don't like ask me for a ride home in my car -- here comes the "no!" People try to borrow things from me -- "No!"
I believe White people should always try and help each other, because what we do best is social cooperation.
Sadly the nigger and the jew undermine a lot of our values and their selfishness bleeds through into our communities.
His friend acted like a nigger and now the relationship is the poorer for it.
Like if you borrow a lawn mower from your White neighbour, you give it back clean, sharp and full of fuel. Then next time he's still happy to lend you his mower, and he'll tell his friends that you are a good man.
Trust and selfless behaviour are core White values, we need to preserve and build upon these or we are lost.
you're a fucking retard if you think """trust""" and """selfless behavior""" belongs only to whites. what are you gonna do if you borrow a lawn mower from a nonwhite? return it broken cause fuck niggers?
The irony is that you get a lot more respect if you set firm boundaries with the magic word 'No.' People who fail to set firm boundaries are treated with resentment and disrespect by those who have come to expect favors from them as if they were some kind of natural right. It is a bit like the dynamics between parents and children - spoiled children are never satisfied!
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