You gather all your girls and have a quilt making party. Make a marriage quilt. Put your vows on the quilt. Add different things like, have pictures put on cloth and let them be part of the quilt. Then you have a keepsake that you and your husband can use! One of the most beautiful quilts I have ever seen had a double wedding ring sewing pattern to hold the quilt together. Something like that would be real nice and very traditional!