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Just wondering what kind of options there are they all seem like scams to a degree

Just wondering what kind of options there are they all seem like scams to a degree

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Farmer date maybe

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I heard about www.whitedate.net specifically for our type. Of course I'm afraid to sign up for it because I think it might be a honey pot registrar.

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Just focus on one that lets you filter by traits like no drugs, no felony convictions, and employed.

Hinge is pretty bad.. at one point I was fairly straight forward about what I was looking for and Hinge banned me permanently. The others like tinder and bumble haven't, although who knows if I just got lucky there.

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The real answer has a bit of nuance.

There used to be. These days Match owns literally everything and they objectively ruin them to maximize their profit.

So start by ruling out everything owned by them.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Match_Group

Then again, they run all the big ones, so I know some guys who have found good women on there just because of sheer volume, but you have to understand it's like buying a lotto ticket with a one in a thousand payout rather than one in a million...but still a fucking lotto ticket.

If you find a site worth investing effort into, maybe copy and paste your profile into one of the big volume ones, but don't get super invested in having a big site pan out.

And yeah, your best bet is to aim young. Sigh.