The relationship part should be easy, it should flow. The whole point of getting into a relationship is to eventually form a family. If you are having trouble getting through the initial ‘just you two’ phase, you are screwed when you try to navigate kids, a mortgage and all the other mayhem life throws at a family. Never could understand couples who are constantly ‘on and off again’. That should be a HUGE red flag that one of, if not both, of you needs to figure themselves out before getting into a relationship. Sometimes the logistics of maintaining a relationship are tricky (distance and such) but the relationship part should be the easy bit that makes the logistical issues worth it. The whole ‘love is hard work’ and ‘love is pain’ thing are bullshit. Hollywood / jew bullshit.
The relationship part **should** be easy, it should flow. The whole point of getting into a relationship is to eventually form a family. If you are having trouble getting through the initial ‘just you two’ phase, you are screwed when you try to navigate kids, a mortgage and all the other mayhem life throws at a family.
Never could understand couples who are constantly ‘on and off again’. That should be a HUGE red flag that one of, if not both, of you needs to figure themselves out before getting into a relationship.
Sometimes the logistics of maintaining a relationship are tricky (distance and such) but the relationship part should be the easy bit that makes the logistical issues worth it. The whole ‘love is hard work’ and ‘love is pain’ thing are bullshit. Hollywood / jew bullshit.
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