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Im a widower, been so for a few years. I got out of a relationship, and i feel like my entire life is hopeless now. This woman ingrained it into my head that being a widower is worst than having cancer, and that she was "settling" with me. I've come to believe, that since then, and since finding christ, she may actually be right. I'm young, I'm not particularly interesting, and my entire past is morbid and dark. So realistically, im thinking my dating life may in fact just be over at this point.

Im a widower, been so for a few years. I got out of a relationship, and i feel like my entire life is hopeless now. This woman ingrained it into my head that being a widower is worst than having cancer, and that she was "settling" with me. I've come to believe, that since then, and since finding christ, she may actually be right. I'm young, I'm not particularly interesting, and my entire past is morbid and dark. So realistically, im thinking my dating life may in fact just be over at this point.

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>This woman ingrained it into my head that being a widower is worst than having cancer

The majority of us are having way less interactions these days. Seeing only a fraction of what we did over a year ago. I too have noticed people you think are supposed to be your friend saying shit that gets under your skin.

Stop talking to this person and if you have to don't let them get preachy with you. They are toxic and their method of attack is 'White Magic'.