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Im a widower, been so for a few years. I got out of a relationship, and i feel like my entire life is hopeless now. This woman ingrained it into my head that being a widower is worst than having cancer, and that she was "settling" with me. I've come to believe, that since then, and since finding christ, she may actually be right. I'm young, I'm not particularly interesting, and my entire past is morbid and dark. So realistically, im thinking my dating life may in fact just be over at this point.

Im a widower, been so for a few years. I got out of a relationship, and i feel like my entire life is hopeless now. This woman ingrained it into my head that being a widower is worst than having cancer, and that she was "settling" with me. I've come to believe, that since then, and since finding christ, she may actually be right. I'm young, I'm not particularly interesting, and my entire past is morbid and dark. So realistically, im thinking my dating life may in fact just be over at this point.

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[–] • 1 pt

The bible makes very little reference to what widowers are supposed to do.

Well then use your own damned mind, bro. Anyway, if you want to marry again, you have to date first as this isn't the bronze age, and you can't just buy a wife from her father for 13 goats and a mule anymore.

[–] • 2 pts

you simply arent shopping in the right places.

[–] • 1 pt

Quite right; if I wanted a subhuman, I'm sure I could buy one from the Massai. But gross.

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Ughh, what about for 2 horses and an acre of land? That's gotta count for something, right?

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kek.

But you're typing, not lifting. Go lift. Go join a gym, or just do as many pushups as you can right now (if you don't have a home gym) and get back to me. It will take 2-3 min