She's not an adament mormon if she's dating/fucking/marrying you. I've known many many mormons. Most adolescents and teenagers in particular are highly repressed. The repression often manifests into typical disorders which the person will do anything to hide. Alcoholism, drugs, sluts. Whereas the ones that dont "experiment" seem rather brainwashed and boring ie NPC. In other words, their restrictive religion results in more extreme ends of behavior compared to other religions. The best mormons are the few who somewhat openly party drink on the occasional weekend and dont take the religion or themselves too seriously. They've got their shit together and are generally decent people and fun to hang with. Consider that mormons are the ONLY white ethnicity exceeding birthrate replacement. Typical 5 to 8 children. I give them huge props for this alone. The only difference between a cult and an organized religion is the duration of its existence.