Goddamn man. I remembered your post from voat after I looked it up. I feel awful for you and I'm impressed that you're putting up with so much for the sake of your kids.
You mentioned in that thread a couple times Jesus talking about dying to yourself for the sake of your wife. But that's not supposed to be a one-way arrangement. The marriage "contract" so-to-speak is supposed to carry duties and responsibilities for both parties so sacrificing yourself over a wife who seems to not care at all for her part of the contract seems futile to me.
Can I ask what her religious background is, if any?
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