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I’m certain that there’s resources out there on how to bend a woman’s will to your own. I need practical useful advice. Exerting dominance has just led to physical altercations in the driveway. If you need background info on this question, use search voat, same username. I’ve done everything suggested like a fucking boss. I’ve got bloody cuts, bruises and police reports to prove it, so if you’re thinking of calling me a cuck, go fuck yourself with your wife’s dildo. Thanks goats.

I’m certain that there’s resources out there on how to bend a woman’s will to your own. I need practical useful advice. Exerting dominance has just led to physical altercations in the driveway. If you need background info on this question, use search voat, same username. I’ve done everything suggested like a fucking boss. I’ve got bloody cuts, bruises and police reports to prove it, so if you’re thinking of calling me a cuck, go fuck yourself with your wife’s dildo. Thanks goats.

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You don't do that at all. You leave. You don't try to control someone unwilling to be controlled. I had your situation. I left because there was no compromise, no conversation. Sometimes not engaging is the right move.

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Controlled is a different word tha lead. LEAD is basically a voluntary follow where as Control is unvoluntary.

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Gifts. Use honey instead of vinegar. It has to be less expensive than getting arrested. Withhold affection, attention, and other resources until she gets in line. Be caring, be a man worthy of a women's obedience.

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No.. A good man will be an example to his wife. Not a slave master. Leading means there is a voluntary following, which means for a woman that trust is the forefront.

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Hi. A woman can be led if she trusts the man to lead her. That is all.

Sincerely, A woman

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Yeah but leading a woman does not mean she's going to do whatever the heck you want her to, whenever you want. She's more likely to do that but she can still refuse.

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If you're looking for a dog then they will do " whatever you tell it to do", but it's important that a woman has and keeps her identity as the woman you fell.in love with and isn't just an extension of yourself. What makes a woman a woman.is that she is not a man and she is opposite. Men tend to have a mind like a waffle, compartmentalized where as women have a mind like spaghetti, everything is going on together. I'll say a good woman looks for a wise man and that wisdom builds trust and she will not stray when leads. Unfortunately men make this more about exerting control rather than allowing it to happen naturally.

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Completely agree. They'll also be content with a strong man even if they have to share him.

I have been benefiting by treating the women I have around as children. Not disrespectfully, just knowing of their nature, despite how "bad bitch" or independent they'd like to appear.

As Jack Nicholson says in As Good As It Gets, when writing for female characters,"I think of a man and then take away reason and accountability", also make sure you're in shape and fucking them properly.

Wish I fully understood this in my 20s but better late than never.

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"allowing it to happen naturally" Sometimes it takes too long. We don't live forever.

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Have you tried researching NLP and fractionation. Look at some of Ross Jeffries early stuff too.

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If thats the case. She is not worth the hassle and you need to find a new woman. Some dogs can't be trained.

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And some dogs don't have the right masters. We have all seen that in the real world for an example...

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Goddamn man. I remembered your post from voat after I looked it up. I feel awful for you and I'm impressed that you're putting up with so much for the sake of your kids.

You mentioned in that thread a couple times Jesus talking about dying to yourself for the sake of your wife. But that's not supposed to be a one-way arrangement. The marriage "contract" so-to-speak is supposed to carry duties and responsibilities for both parties so sacrificing yourself over a wife who seems to not care at all for her part of the contract seems futile to me.

Can I ask what her religious background is, if any?