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I've tried to give my sister the benefit of the doubt for too long, it's been years. I wanted to keep everything civil for my parents sake but I can't anymore. She has so many horrible traits and a disgusting attitude, a 100% toxic personality. My brother agrees with my sentiments and my father to a certain extent (he will never admit it). It feels good knowing I will never have to hear her for the rest of my life, I feel very happy. I do feel bad for my mother though but I can't fake being friendly to someone I hate. Anyway has anyone else had a similar experience? Whether it be with a sibling or family member.

I've tried to give my sister the benefit of the doubt for too long, it's been years. I wanted to keep everything civil for my parents sake but I can't anymore. She has so many horrible traits and a disgusting attitude, a 100% toxic personality. My brother agrees with my sentiments and my father to a certain extent (he will never admit it). It feels good knowing I will never have to hear her for the rest of my life, I feel very happy. I do feel bad for my mother though but I can't fake being friendly to someone I hate. Anyway has anyone else had a similar experience? Whether it be with a sibling or family member.

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Yes. I suggest that you ensure that you are 100% certain that you harbor no guilt before you completely step out of the picture. This includes having a very honest conversation about where you stand and why she isn't going to be part of your life until she is vastly different.

This isn't for her, but for you. It ensures that you will never face any doubt and all fault lies in her court. As a good person, even if you do these things there will be times where you feel nostalgic and wish for a better relationship. It's so important that you make sure there's no doubt.

I'm sorry for your loss of what could've been a great form of family for your future children. An aunt is like gold if she's good.