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My white lady friend is due with her baby boy in a few months and I need to write her a thoughtful email telling her to look into circumscision. I feel like she may choose to do it for stupid reasons. I'd like to do what I can to prevent a white boy from suffering. There's the foreskin market, the pain, the risk for later sexual dysfunction- give me all the good arguments and links.

I'd do the research myself but I am pregnant and have wicked first trimester nausea and really only have it in me to write the email. I could use y'alls help.

Thanks!!

My white lady friend is due with her baby boy in a few months and I need to write her a thoughtful email telling her to look into circumscision. I feel like she may choose to do it for stupid reasons. I'd like to do what I can to prevent a white boy from suffering. There's the foreskin market, the pain, the risk for later sexual dysfunction- give me all the good arguments and links. I'd do the research myself but I am pregnant and have wicked first trimester nausea and really only have it in me to write the email. I could use y'alls help. Thanks!!

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That is a great leading question. I am absolutely going to include that. Great feedback :)

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Anytime. Did you get sufficient links and info to make your argument?

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I did. She said she's very open minded to both sides, which is lame that she isn't totally against it- but I'm glad she's really looking into it. I don't know how a person can see both sides and choose to circ.

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It's one thing to see both sides when it is regarding consenting adults modifying their bodies. There aren't two sides when a permanent surgery is perpetrated on an non-consenting individual. All evidence points towards: waiting = more options, more humane, & better results.

Good luck, and thank you for your efforts. It seems in general a penis is very difficult for a woman to understand how it functions and feels. Many women seem to consider it no big deal to literally cut off 20k nerve endings and permanently expose the glans. As a foreskin-equipped man, I can unequivocally say that circumcision is a MASSIVELY BIG DEAL.

So again, thank you and all the best!