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My white lady friend is due with her baby boy in a few months and I need to write her a thoughtful email telling her to look into circumscision. I feel like she may choose to do it for stupid reasons. I'd like to do what I can to prevent a white boy from suffering. There's the foreskin market, the pain, the risk for later sexual dysfunction- give me all the good arguments and links.

I'd do the research myself but I am pregnant and have wicked first trimester nausea and really only have it in me to write the email. I could use y'alls help.

Thanks!!

My white lady friend is due with her baby boy in a few months and I need to write her a thoughtful email telling her to look into circumscision. I feel like she may choose to do it for stupid reasons. I'd like to do what I can to prevent a white boy from suffering. There's the foreskin market, the pain, the risk for later sexual dysfunction- give me all the good arguments and links. I'd do the research myself but I am pregnant and have wicked first trimester nausea and really only have it in me to write the email. I could use y'alls help. Thanks!!

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I did. She said she's very open minded to both sides, which is lame that she isn't totally against it- but I'm glad she's really looking into it. I don't know how a person can see both sides and choose to circ.

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It's one thing to see both sides when it is regarding consenting adults modifying their bodies. There aren't two sides when a permanent surgery is perpetrated on an non-consenting individual. All evidence points towards: waiting = more options, more humane, & better results.

Good luck, and thank you for your efforts. It seems in general a penis is very difficult for a woman to understand how it functions and feels. Many women seem to consider it no big deal to literally cut off 20k nerve endings and permanently expose the glans. As a foreskin-equipped man, I can unequivocally say that circumcision is a MASSIVELY BIG DEAL.

So again, thank you and all the best!

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No problem. I swear, I've always been naturally red-pilled on shit like this. My dad and brothers were circumsized but I remember going back-and-forth with my mom about it. She was justifying all the reasons why "it had to be done" and I remember easily knocking down the arguments when I was a preteen in the 1990s. If questions arise about why dad and son "don't look the same" just fucking explain that we don't cut baby penises anymore. The "it's cleaner" argument- we don't rip out teeth and replace with synthetics because we may get a cavity someday. Just fucking learn how to wash. I remember my mom saying "you just don't understand" but I always ALWAYS knew it was a fucked up thing to do to a NEWBORN BABY.

Newborn babies are totally assaulted when they exit the womb (which is traumatic enough). Goop in the eyes, vaccines, circumcision. This is why I use a birth center and refuse all that shit.

Anyways, I'm also pregnant with baby #3 and will not know if it's a boy or girl until the birthday. My baby will enter in this workd in a warm and caring way and will not be poked and sliced and tortured.

Anyways, thanks for everything!

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You sound like an awesome woman. Hope to have kids someday, and have researched birthing centers/home birth. There's so much wrong with the hospital approach to the natural process of birth.

Good for you for having common sense. I cannot believe that some people think it's totally normal and fine to just cut up a baby dick with minimal anesthesia/numbing.