I think that ungratefulness and taking things for granted is the bedrock of depression.
I have dealt with depression since I was 8 years old (I'm 30 now). I have realized one of the best solutions for my depression was to actively practice gratitude on a daily basis.
I realized that practicing gratitude is the antithesis of "wallowing". It's about proactively deciding to have a thankful, positive attitude about life despite its imperfections, instead of having a negative, ugly, spoiled, ungrateful, victimy, niggery attitude.
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