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I have a family member that I care about deeply that has a milestone birthday coming up. He is a highly intelligent young man, already red pilled on many topics but struggles with confidence and relationships as he is introverted. Not autistic, but a bit socially awkward. The idiotic lockdown during a year when young people his age should’ve been navigating the world of dating has been a huge setback.

I’d like to buy him some books to help build his confidence and give him pointers on talking to girls and dating. Any ideas?

I have a family member that I care about deeply that has a milestone birthday coming up. He is a highly intelligent young man, already red pilled on many topics but struggles with confidence and relationships as he is introverted. Not autistic, but a bit socially awkward. The idiotic lockdown during a year when young people his age should’ve been navigating the world of dating has been a huge setback. I’d like to buy him some books to help build his confidence and give him pointers on talking to girls and dating. Any ideas?

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This young Man doesn't need a book, He requires a Role Model. Be his Friend.

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I’m a woman. I agree he does need a strong male role model but I’m just trying to do what I can.

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Role model

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Excuse my ignorance!

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Just trying to help a brother out

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The Turner Diaries

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RSD or real social dynamics on youtube is pretty good for carrot sticking men into better social skills. They are "pickup" gurus, but the underlying ideas and skills are basically how to be sociable without being needy. Using women as the carrot to move the ass forward to learn real social skills.